Another Country

[Lukeee]

Hey guys..

Im a 17 years old boy.. I just met this sweet and wonderfull girl while she was on vacation here in Denmark at her best friend who is one of my good friends..

I was together with them like 4-5 times while she was here and we had a crush on each other, we was kissing, holding hands etc..

The problem is she lives in United Kingdom so I dont have the opportunity to see her, which I really really would like to.

She took home last day (sunday) and I dont know what to do!!!
All I wanna do right now is to hop on a plane and see her!!!

We were writing as she came home and she told me that she misses me alot, and I miss her too very much...

The problem is, I dont know what to do now.. Should I be realistic and just think she was a flirt????

Or... Shall I keep contact with her and meet her whenever it is possible??

its only 1hour and 30-40 min in flight and im UK and she lives like 50-60km outside of london..

I cant get this girl out of my mind, she is in my thoughts all the time..

She will be back in summer and its like 6-7 months till that...

I know I sound pathetic but this girl has so much to offer and I really liked her, so I just dont want to throw her away :S

[vashti]

You can maintain contact (if you both wish), but I suggest you both continue dating other people. You can't make a relationship with someone so far away, particularly at 17. You can date if you happen to be in the same place at the same time, though.

[Petit Papillon]

Here You are, I deleted the other thread and moved this here... A bit complicated but I hope this is what You wanted

[Lukeee]

i was not thinking of getting in a relation ship with her that is beeing totally unrealistic as a 17 years old.. I just hope that we could be like friends with benefits. Hope you know what I mean... But it just suck watching her leave and Ive got empty feeling in my stomach..

[Petit Papillon]

Do You know what is `friendship with benefits`? It`s like having physical relationship without getting feelings involved... Well I don`t think she will let some random guy pork her just because she sees him once per year? Like come on Move on or take a part time job and go to visit her (if her parents agree). It doesn`t cost much to go to London. But at best leave it... There`s more plenty fish in the sea .

[noralkk]

Be realistic now since u r only 17 years old