oh jack, that sounds terrible. family is hard to get around especially with both backgrounds having such cultural issues. unfortunately with people like that on both sides it can make it very difficult. it's up to you what you decide. no-one can make the decision for you. things will always be tough with family like that. it's up to you whether your love outweighs the hassle on both sides. as long as neither of you are in danger from either sides of the family then it just really about whether you love her enough to be strong for her.
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching