Ex contacting me. Just friends or does he want more?

[sunflwr23]

i finally deleted all of my voicemails from my ex today. I know a year later I just couldn't bear to hear his voice and him saying he loved me. but I had to go through them today so i finally deleted them. It's pathetic but I am kinda still shocked he broke up with me because we were so happy and so good together. It's been over a year and I still feel like we should be together. It makes me feel so pathetic but I loved him so much.

[cmacattack1]

Sounds like a step in the right direction. Even if you were to get back together, wouldn't that be a sign of the bad times when it didn't work out (even though you claim everything was good)?

I still have my ex's stuff saved and she's already been dating the kid longer than we were happy when we were dating (5 months). I'm thinking about burning it myself.

[sunflwr23]

did you see the post I posted before that one? I posted twice in a row but they got posted on two different pages so I don't think anyone has seen my questions from my first post. I still have some stuff from my ex but it's put away it's nothing I plan on getting rid of anytime soon (diamond jewelry and such) I know it's weird I never know what to do with stuff b/c you never know what you may want later to remind you of things.