Only 16 and GF talking about kids??

[Paul Cho]

I think, if the girl is pressuring you into having children, she must be lacking something emotionally in the relationship and is looking for it in the form of a child to bring you two closer.


While it may not be the right way to go about things, I think she's crying out for help.


Paul Cho

[HiMyNameisNick]

Yea Ive got really big dreams for myself (Naval Academy if possible) and that school has age requirements, height requirements, cant be married, cant be legally responsible for a child, etc... So a kid would destroy my life and I know I would regret it forever, so Ive stopped the sex.

But I am still unsure how to address the problem of how she reacted, because to be honest I think she wants a kid. she told me she would never regret having a child even if she was still in high school. AND she has the easiest life ever, barely does any work for school, parents give her everything, does no sports or anything, she sits aorund and watches TV every weekday, and likes to dance/drink/smoke on weekends.

so what I just described in that previous paragraph suggests that she has no aspirations for her life except to make a family, she doesnt even plan on college. She has even told me she wants a kid right after high school and wants to get married, I told her no to that ofcourse.

[girl68]

Oh dear god... run.

[Illusional]

haha you ding a ling....

raverboy

[doppelgaenger]

Find another girlfriend, Nick.

Doesn't sound like you're really into her, anyway. I'd say you need a girl with more self-discipline; someone who is responsible and more respectful. Your current sounds like the kind that gets pregnant to keep a man around.

[Illusional]

at 16... who is really in love?? i mean i said i was, but i was also loving my raging hormones.

raverboy