Please help need a womens advice

[caminfamous]

Ok first off hi thanks for listening
Iv been with this girl for 1 year and 3 months and im
very sure i love her but just recently i found somthing.....
I was on her myspace looking at all the cute pass things we talked about
and loving it then i saw her talking to this guy....they were saying how cute
each other were and how they should take each other out when he got back
from guam..(He is in the army) im in the navy and i leave in 21 days....one of the messages said do you have a boyfriend and she replied with yes but he is leaving soon so who knows....
i confronted her about it and she was very apoligetic and s\begged me to stay with her. she said it was just a joke and wanted sombody to call her pretty...i forgave her but should i? i dont want to leave this in my boys hands..please help

[vashti]

Aww, sweety. I don't think you should count on her waiting around for you. She's a young girl who needs a lot of attention, which to be honest, is normal for a girl that age.

I think you should enjoy the time you have left until you leave, and then break off with her. You can get back together again when you return, if you are still interested, and who knows? you may even meet someone else while you are away.

I'm sorry.

[1337lizard]

Poor guy
I've had this problem before, good luck sir. Vashti knows her stuff