ex bf left me for someone else...

**chloelesliexo** · 05-02-10, 05:16 PM

...is there any chance he'll ever regret it, ever come back.
we were together a year and a half and he left little over 2 months ago for a younger girl who lives quite far away.
she was the first girl he came across after the split and they were friends for one week before the split.
there was nothing concrete behind our split and he's just used pitiful excuses like me cheating to justify it.

so is the grass really greener?
will he ever have any regrets?

**Gigabitch** · 06-02-10, 01:09 AM

What the **** are you talking about?

Did he leave you for her or was she the first girl he came across after the split?

Did you cheat, and if so, how is that a pathetic excuse?

And to answer your question, yes, there's a chance he'll come back, but why would you want him to if he's already shown that he's willing to dump you flat?

**QueenofCorona** · 06-02-10, 01:23 AM

I got my apology 8 years after he cheated on me with a mutual friend, married her, then SHE moved on to greener pastures and divorced him. It sucks and its hard and broken hearts are the worst. It was almost as bad as when he left me when he came back into my life, just rehashed a bunch of ancient feelings...mainly bad ones.

Looking back I wish I would have been able to see that if he could throw me away like garbage after how good to him I was then it was HIM with the problem, not me. Don't waste too much time crying. There are good guys who want to be with you.

**davidtorres** · 06-02-10, 01:29 AM

"he's just used pitiful excuses like me cheating to justify it"

you call that pitiful? Any guy will dump your ass for cheating unless he has no balls. Good for him he dump you and good for you for being dump.