Military husband kissed a Korean girl

[Baybee]

So my husband kissed a korean girl when he was so drunk.
I also read in his messages that he thinks they are beautiful. And he was telling his friend he "hasn't seen one naked yet"

Does this mean he is going to cheat on me?
I mean I know kissing is cheating but sex is far worse.
Does he still love me?
He said he won't do it again, but I don't know what's going on behind my back.
I don't want to keep asking him if he's cheating because I don't want to aggravate the situation.
This happened a month ago and he's there until december 2011.

What do you guys think?

[Coco]

What the hell. I would ask him does he plan on seeing one naked sometime soon? Because if he does you should plan on seeing some naked guy soon as well.

[LoveMyBf-x]

He kissed someone else. He's cheated on you. What more else do you need ?

Does he love you? NO.

You don't want to aggrivate the situation by being on his a** about it? Why the hell not? HE cheated on YOU he deserves everything he gets!

You clearly don't trust your man, he needs to be sorted out. Which is your job.

Good luck

[doppelgaenger]

Why don't you kiss a Korean man? You know, make it even.

[vashti]

He might love you (and probably does), but he is going to be gone a long time. I don't think the odds of him remaining faithful for this length of time are high.

[Illusional]

holy shit.. norfolk.... cold as hell there ah?? but i heard that you've got a nice shipyard.

anyways... i think that he might cheat on you. being that he is always keeping his eyes out for another target, it would seem likely that this would happen. him being that his is drunk sounds like his "excuse" in case shit happens. i would talk to him about it if you want to try and prevent this.

raverboy

[Coco]

He's just getting there and already thinking about cheating on you. Drop him. Let him be and do your own thing.

[Illusional]

it's not that easy to drop him because these two are married.

raverboy

[SirWagginston]

Why don't you kiss a Korean man? You know, make it even.

How about another woman, instead? You should also tape it and post it online. You know, just to rub it in his face.

[Baybee]

well I have thought about cheating on him too, but that probably wouldn't make me feel better.
And he's gonna be coming home every six months to see us and spend christmas with us.

And yes we are married and divorcing wouldn't be easy.
Plus I have been dependent on him and I have never had a job.

I mean it's hard to trust someone when they are far away and you don't know what's going on.
But I know he loves me he is just an asshole. lol

[Coco]

Well I didn't mean to divorce him but I mean... let him go while he is away because that's going to be tough for the both of you. It's something you two should definitely discuss. Also... he should be a bit more respectful about being so open about what he is doing over there with other women. Geez.

[Baybee]

he didnt exactly tell me. I read his messages and he was telling his friend he wasnt planning on telling me.

And I wouldn't mind him messing around over there as long as I get to have fun too but as soon as I mention an open relationship he gets pissed and says he couldnt stand me being with someone else.
He's the only guy I've ever been with and married him. I guess he thinks he's the only one allowed in my vagina

[vashti]

I guess he thinks he's the only one allowed in my vagina

yeah, husbands tend to feel that way.

[tropigal82]

Never had a job?

This is exactly why women should have their own financial means!

[vashti]

Why don't you have a job? Do you have young children?