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    people always ask.....

    oh how is your g/f doing? this kills me. i came back home for the wkend and people i see in town are asking me that question over and over! this is killing me. then when you tell them that you are broken up, they just reply with " oh! you all will get back together." i just wish that i could hang a big sign over my head stating " don't even ask about the ex."

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    That happened to me last night but I handled it well. I went to a party and saw a girl who I haven't seen in two years. She asked about my boyfriend and I was like, "well, uh. . .we're not together anymore." She felt HORRIBLE but it wasn't her fault. She didn't know. And the reminder didn't make me "relapse" so I'm hoping that means I'm on the mend.

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    uhh...they ask because they dunno... but you could reply that you wish your ex was dead and that should shut them up.

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    Yeah... I wish people would stop asking awkward questions like that...
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    Some people still ask if I talk to my ex (it's been 3 years) jeezz..

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    ^^^^ that means that you haven't kept good contact with them in over 3 years.

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    That sucks, I don't know why people (other than your good friends) would think thats ok to ask about. I was watching Celebrity Fit Club (don't judge) and Char Jackson (Kevin Federline's baby momma) was saying how she ate when she was upset and put on so much weight over the years and one of the main reasons she was upset because SO many people would ask her about Britney and Kevin to her face out in public, paparazzi and whoever. Think how bad thats gotta suck. I can't imagine how painful that would be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional View Post
    ^^^^ that means that you haven't kept good contact with them in over 3 years.

    raverboy
    No, that's not true. We don't meet so often, like once in two months or something.. still ask the same thing

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    then give them an evil glare and that will settle things.

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