Question about masturbation...

[everton11]

I have been seeing this woman for about two weeks, we made out once, went on dates for a few times now, and here is the strange thing...

She is not the most attractive woman I have seen, through I am physically attracted by her, what really appeal to me is that she is a mature and intelligent person.

Well, starting about a week ago, I'm having problem with achieving erections... I'm in my mid-20s (in GREAT physical shape) and never have problem with masturbation. But now even the hottest porn clips (including my favorites Melissa Matters and Sativa Rose...) can't really turn me on anymore, I have to think about her in order to do so.

I have dated a few women before (less than 5) and this has never happened before. Is there something wrong with me or this is normal for guys my age? How long will this last?

Any suggestions/advices/comments will be appreciated, thank you.

[vashti]

Over time, the things that you find attractive and arousing evolve in ways you can't even imagine when you are young. So long as you can get it up SOMEHOW, don't be alarmed... it's part of growing up.

[Doc Durian]

You need to get your groove on with her. Sounds like you dig her.

[SirWagginston]

Sounds flattering, to me. I wonder how she'd react if you told her that you only get horny when you think of her.

[Doc Durian]

That's a comment to be made much further down the road.

They haven't even gotten intimate yet.

Imagine him popping up during a make out session, "You know... I flog the sausage roll only to your image. You're hawt! rawrrrr.."

[vashti]

I wonder how she'd react if you told her that you only get horny when you think of her.

DON'T do this. Seriously.

[everton11]

Haha, I have more senses than telling her that.

Well, I'm taking her out tomorrow night, so may be I would get a bit of erection later on...

[dyno31225]

Haha, I have more senses than telling her that.

Well, I'm taking her out tomorrow night, so may be I would get a bit of erection later on...

hahaha... i hope so...

i think its cute that you only get hard when thinking of her...

[kisswithafist]

yeah i think that that is quite sweet in a way.

and actually if a lad i was seeing told me this i actually would be flattered! ha, perhaps thats just me then.

[dyno31225]

haha... i would be flattered...

[SirWagginston]

See, some people think it's a good idea. Do it and tell us what she says!

[vashti]

I would be flattered if told in retrospect, or if by someone I knew really well. Otherwise, only old people with dementia could get away with it without sounding creepy and obsessed.

[dewilliams2]

I've been in the same boat...I don't know why it happens...I say ya just need to get with her.

[everton11]

lol, some of you guys are trying to do me wrong, I'm listening to vashti on this one.

Besides, she did say she wants to take it slow.