Is it dishonest to whack off before she arrives?

[Kaius]

I have always had a problem prolonging the first pop. It would be like 3 minutes or less, and boom. Every time my woman and I have sex, I pop 4 times within our 4-hours session (with rest in between of course). My woman has commented how she's impressed with my endurance, and how I am able to last soooo long before the 1st pop. The truth is that I always release myself about 30 minutes before I see her, so the 1st pop is actually the 2nd pop, which I can last a good 30 - 40 minutes no problem. Is this dishonesty to have her believe I can actually last that long?

[doppelgaenger]

Dude, who gives a ****. If you want to whack off, go right ahead.

[Chupacabras]

Of course not. It's a trick of the trade, though I'd consider using your masturbatory time to "train" so you won't have to blow out your snorkel before each sex session.

[Petit Papillon]

I would assume you're kind of sexoholic. Dude. Wacking off before sex with her? 4 hours of sex session? You make her come 6 times during that time? Jeeez, you both should work in porno industry, like FOR REAL .

[urkiddingme]

I have always had a problem prolonging the first pop. It would be like 3 minutes or less, and boom. Every time my woman and I have sex, I pop 4 times within our 4-hours session (with rest in between of course). My woman has commented how she's impressed with my endurance, and how I am able to last soooo long before the 1st pop. The truth is that I always release myself about 30 minutes before I see her, so the 1st pop is actually the 2nd pop, which I can last a good 30 - 40 minutes no problem. Is this dishonesty to have her believe I can actually last that long?

I wouldn't say so, your doing it for her basicly

[Gigabitch]

It's not dishonest, it's considerate. You're a good man, Kaius.

[vashti]

You should be cloned!

[lilly1185]

I wouldn't call it dishonesty.

I wouldn't tell her either.

If she's pleased, and you're satisfied, who cares? It's not like you're popping it off on another chick. Also, do use that time to train yourself.

[Cbrider]

I believe Giga just thanked you for beating off - there is no question here.

[Kaius]

I would assume you're kind of sexoholic. Dude. Wacking off before sex with her? 4 hours of sex session? You make her come 6 times during that time? Jeeez, you both should work in porno industry, like FOR REAL .

When did I say I make her come 6 times?! It's more like 8-10, but that's in a 4-hour period. No we are not sex addicts or anything.... we only see each other 1 or 2 times a week so we try to make good use of our time. Right now we are not having sex at all because we decided to start over and build relationship slowly.
Yes it's kinda hard to refrain from sex, but we are committed to this relationship so we are willing to wait.... Sounds kinda weird considering we are both in our mid-late-30s, and have 2 kids a piece. I really love her, and want to marry her some day... so I want to give her the best of me.

I think it's a good idea to use the whack-off as training. I think the pre-mature 1st pop is very much psychological. Gonna work on it. Thanks!

[DonkeyKong]

Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day!
Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day!

[VincenzoG91]

Just be careful not to get it caught in your zipper. Oh wait, that was a different scene in the movie.

[urkiddingme]

yea like others said, i would practice, personally, i want my first "pop" of the evening or whatever to be with my lady, because it is usually going to be the most intense and best feeling.