Hi guys...
Just wondered if you could shed some light on this...
My BF says he loves me, he says Im THE ONE.. Ive been with him 7 months now..Yeah there are issues that need addressing but i feel he may just be worth waiting for them to get sorted... Just wondered for a guy to say your THE ONE. what do you mean by that? Is that a big thing for a man to say when your in a relationship? just would like to hear a males perspective on this
thanks
Mel x
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14-03-10, 07:28 AM #1
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The One?
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14-03-10, 07:47 AM #2
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Unless he's a bullshitter you should be very flattered.
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16-03-10, 12:53 AM #3
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It's pretty big thing for a guy to say that. Just make sure he's sincere.
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16-03-10, 01:27 AM #4
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depends who the man is... for me, it means something. When I tell my fiance I want to be with her forever, I mean it. Some guys can also use these things/words to get things out of a reltionship too though... 7months is pretty long, but perhaps not long enough...
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16-03-10, 01:29 AM #5
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If his actions are consistent with his words and he doesn't say it easily, then you have a keeper. Treat him like gold. 7 months is pretty early to be saying this, tho it may just mean he's a romantic at heart.
Do you return his feelings? If not, be kind and let him go. Women who drag nice guys like this through the muck are the worst.
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16-03-10, 06:04 AM #6
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I said it and I was wrong. My advice for you is *flips off*
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05-07-10, 05:02 AM #7
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If he is the only man so you are the only woman? Statement is correct or not?
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05-07-10, 08:11 AM #8
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the one what ??? If he says he loves then he must I reckon. I wouldn't put too much into what he says. Actions speak louder than words, how does he show you you're the one?
I don't know how old you are but guys especially younger guys will pretty much do or say anything to get into a woman's pants.
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12-07-10, 08:04 AM #9
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It's like anything else, do you trust him? It's a pretty big deal for some guys and just something that other guys say to manipulate women, only you know if he's sincere; for your sake I hope he is. Good Luck,
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13-07-10, 02:47 AM #10
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I'm wary of that statement so early in the relationship. I remember a guy who was sure I was "the one" when I was 19. He was frothing at the mouth to get married after we'd only been together a few months. When I refused, he freaked out and went off to find another "the one". Later, I found out I was at least the third "one" he had been with.
He was just mental, that's all.Spammer Spanker
