sex doesnt even matter

[nowomannocry]

I just wish a woman could be nice to me, but I'm getting to where it feels like they exist to make me suffer, and I don't deserve love, and all these things that a 19 year old man should be over and done with.

I thought I was getting over being the shyest person on the face of the earth, but I'm only just beginning to pull myself out of the hole I put myself in, it seems like every time I paw away at the walls of dirt burying me in the ground trying to make it to the surface, I lose my grip and fall down further

there's a point where the positive energy I can give to women is just not going to exist anymore

[nowomannocry]

oh here's a question you can answer, girl. WHY AM I ALIVE?

[vashti]

What do you do with yourself in order to put yourself in a position to meet girls, and also, what do you do that will make you an attractive option? Are you interesting? Smart? Wealthy? (The last part was a joke. Sort of.)

[Doc Durian]

I just wish a woman could be nice to me, but I'm getting to where it feels like they exist to make me suffer, and I don't deserve love, and all these things that a 19 year old man should be over and done with.

I thought I was getting over being the shyest person on the face of the earth, but I'm only just beginning to pull myself out of the hole I put myself in, it seems like every time I paw away at the walls of dirt burying me in the ground trying to make it to the surface, I lose my grip and fall down further

there's a point where the positive energy I can give to women is just not going to exist anymore

The more you ignore women, the more their ears perk up and they're interested.

Seems odd, but it's what I've found to be true...at least for myself.

[Mish]

WHY AM I ALIVE?

Why not

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[nowomannocry]

this is starting to remind me of elliqiuy or however it's spelled forums, you all have incredibly too large post counts for a love forum

kill bill chick is right though

i don't put myself out there, even though I feel ugly cause I'm fat and sick in the head

slowly as my brain recovers from the addiction of marijuana, things will become clearer. cause I haven't stopped growing yet.

asdf

[doppelgaenger]

Okay, so you're a fat lazy pothead. Why don't you get off your lazy ass and do something with your life? Then it'll be easier to approach women.

[nowomannocry]

Okay, so you're a fat lazy pothead. Why don't you get off your lazy ass and do something with your life? Then it'll be easier to approach women.

women lulled me into smoking pot

even the sexy ones...

[doppelgaenger]

You sound like my little brother, who is about to go to jail for the 5th time and he's 19 too. He's a lazy pothead that still lives back at home with mommy. He tried to get back up on his feet, he got a job, people gave him money, but he made some dumbass mistakes, and I'll tell you what, it's the drugs dragging him down. Do you think he ever had a nice girlfriend that really cared about him and loved him and treated him nice? Hell no. He's definitely had a lot of girlfriends, though. Way more than me. They used him and abused him and he gets all washed up in this vicious circle that took the quality of life away from him.

Is that what you want out of life? I don't think so. Take it from a guy who watched close friends and family ruin their own lives. Put down that reefer and make something of yourself.

[QueenofCorona]

Well as a shy former pothead let me tell you, you are just spinning your wheels. The last thing a person who has social anxiety should be doing when you are trying to be social is smoking pot and being all paranoid. Step away from the nug and go to the gym and tone up. If you are happy with what you look like on the outside, you'll be happier inside.

[nowomannocry]

meh, after doing so many hallucinogens, that period of "medical marijuana" was kind of neccessary for me to not die of depression

I'm off the weed so dont bother talking about that more

[SirWagginston]

Start hitting on less attractive girls. If you can't bring yourself to get with a fat chick, then why the Hell haven't you done something about your weight, yet? Life isn't always fair, but sometimes it is.

[lahnnabell]

The only person who can pull you out of this hole you speak of is you. You need to become accountable for your actions. No more of this blaming other chicks for the decisions you made consciously. Yeah, you made some mistakes, but becoming aware of them and exploring the desire to fix them is the first step. One girl being nice to you is not going to fix this ongoing issue you have with yourself. You need to feel good about you, inside and out.

Explore the things you like. Your hobbies. Dive into it. When you begin to see the world in a more positive light, people will come to you and you'll be more ready to reciprocate.

[Gigabitch]

Well, so you're a miserable ****. You know what? A girlfriend might only add to that. Have you read some of these threads? You're not ready for this stuff.

Get off your ass and go find something to do that gives you a sense of self-worth. Do you have a job? Did you at least graduate high school?

[Aeradalia]

Counseling might be a good option -- ask questions, get answers, without all the drama. They can help put you in touch with people who can offer support, so you won't be facing yourself alone -- which can be a scary prospect sometimes.

Hallucinogens and other drugs can alter the way the brain works... therapy can help instill new coping skills so you can re-alter the brain for the better.

Give it a try, what's the worse that can happen? End up right back where you are?