do you guys get turned off? Is it overwhelming to have the girl "chasing" after you?
+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 11 of 11
-
29-03-10, 10:24 AM #1
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Jan 2010
- Gender
- Posts
- 273
When the girl calls the guy in the beginning...
-
29-03-10, 10:33 AM #2
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Nov 2009
- Gender
- Posts
- 31
Not really
-
29-03-10, 10:48 AM #3
Regular User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Aug 2009
- Gender
- Location
- Connecticut
- Posts
- 212
No and also it depends on how aggressive she is..
-
29-03-10, 11:40 AM #4
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Mar 2010
- Gender
- Posts
- 29
No, call the guy....and if you like him more than a friend.........show signs or tell him...
I'm having the opposite problem right now.....can't tell if the girl likes me more than a friend or not cause she isn't showing enough interest.
-
29-03-10, 11:45 AM #5
Normal User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Jun 2005
- Gender
- Posts
- 436
no harm as long as you dont go overboard with him. Calling him up is "A okay".
-
29-03-10, 02:02 PM #6
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Mar 2010
- Gender
- Posts
- 3
It's the freaken 20th century, of course you can. But know this, do it sometime soon. Word of warning, dont be that girl that calls two to three weeks later expecting that the guy has photographic memory. Oh and by the way make it seem casual, cup of coffee, walk in the park, no fancy italian restaraunts. Good luck!!
-
29-03-10, 02:55 PM #7
little person, big mouth
- Country:
"Hot Love Pancake(s)"
- Join Date
- Aug 2009
- Gender
- Location
- Beautiful British Columbia
- Posts
- 5,599
The only guy I ever "scared" off by calling was the guy who wasn't interested in me in the first place. And I've called a lot of guys...
-
29-03-10, 10:03 PM #8
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Jan 2010
- Gender
- Location
- Twin Cities
- Posts
- 3,763
On behalf of the rest of the world, I welcome you to the 21st Century. Enjoy your stay.
Originally Posted by keen_insight_69
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
-
30-03-10, 02:13 AM #9
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Dec 2009
- Gender
- Posts
- 722
Somewhere out there, a guy that would be turned off by you calling him first probably exists, maybe in a more traditional part of the world.
As for me, it has the opposite effect. If the girl calls me, I figure she is a thinking person who knows what she wants, and doesn't sit passively and wait for it. That's a turn-on.
-
30-03-10, 03:53 AM #10
Regular User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Jul 2005
- Gender
- Location
- Colorado
- Posts
- 2,510
I dont care if you're a guy or a girl. Or if the caller is a guy or a girl. The bottom line is, if you both like eachother, who cares? If anyone tells you that you failed because you called too soon, then there is a hidden truth somewhere.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
-
31-03-10, 05:39 AM #11
Registered User
- Country:
- Join Date
- Aug 2009
- Gender
- Location
- Los Angeles
- Posts
- 319
hell no. only stupid guys will get scared of a call from a girl.
Similar Threads
-
A new beginning
By DerekColors in forum Love PoemsReplies: 2Last Post: 19-07-09, 06:46 PM -
The beginning of the end
By cheeze_guy in forum Love Advice forumReplies: 16Last Post: 23-04-07, 07:36 AM -
New Beginning
By artyemi in forum Broken Hearts ForumReplies: 22Last Post: 23-08-05, 11:51 PM -
A New Year, A New Beginning
By Delphyne in forum Introduce YourselfReplies: 3Last Post: 04-01-04, 08:45 AM
