Describe your perfect "Lady"

**Graham Berkeley** · 31-03-10, 01:04 AM

Hey guys,

I'm curious to see what the Men's opinions on what a Woman is. All men say they want one but when you get down to it they all have totally different perspectives on what that is exactly. What do you guys think?

**the_robot** · 31-03-10, 01:44 AM

I don't get what you are asking... what a woman is? what a lady is? what the "perfect" woman for each one is? what?

**Graham Berkeley** · 31-03-10, 05:31 AM

Pick one...

**vashti** · 31-03-10, 05:41 AM

Should we leave this up to the girls, then?

I think a "lady" knows how to make a male feel like a man.
She doesn't dress trashy, doesn't act trashy, doesn't look trashy.
She is kind to everyone and doesn't embarrass people publicly.
She would never make a scene in public.
She knows how to NOT be a lady when the time is right. (ahem)
She knows when to keep her mouth shut and doesn't gossip.

**MissAnn** · 31-03-10, 05:56 AM

My grandmother always said a lady would be comfortable, and would make those around her feel comfortable, either at a formal dinner or in a greasy spoon diner.

**the_robot** · 31-03-10, 06:01 AM

hmm... I guess a lady would be pretty much what Vashti says, a woman someone that has XX chromosomes and my perfect woman... hell if I know...

**Disillusioned** · 31-03-10, 06:03 AM

A woman is a lot like a refrigerator...about six feet tall, 300lbs...they make ice...

What I think I appreciate about women and what I actually appreciate about women, in a specific moment in time where there's actual potential to be involved with her, are two very different things. It doesn't even occur to me until the situation arises. I can make educated guesses about myself: I prefer brunettes to blondes, blondes to redheads but that goes out the window quick. I like glasses. I like short and voluptuous or tall and skinny or whatever in between...depending on how she wears it. I detest sanctimony (don't we all?), I really find intelligence (not arrogance and ostentatiousness) attractive. I'm insecure if she's got a way better job than me... I have trouble even talking about this without feeling like shallow scum. I just don't want somebody to lord it over me how much better they are than me. It's been a long time so I'm paranoid about how easily I can be manipulated. So, when (if) the situation arises again, what can I say? I don't know but I won't put up with double-standards.

**Gigabitch** · 31-03-10, 06:24 AM

A lady shows consideration and respect for everyone around her, from the President to the garbage man.

**Mish** · 31-03-10, 08:41 AM

Originally Posted by vashti

Should we leave this up to the girls, then?

I think a "lady" knows how to make a male feel like a man.
She doesn't dress trashy, doesn't act trashy, doesn't look trashy.
She is kind to everyone and doesn't embarrass people publicly.
She would never make a scene in public.
She knows how to NOT be a lady when the time is right. (ahem)
She knows when to keep her mouth shut and doesn't gossip.

All of the above with an element of commitment and devotion. With an emphasis on being kind to others, a girl shines brightest when she is positive and nurturing. I can't stress enough how attractive that quality is.

**nowomannocry** · 31-03-10, 10:33 AM

Willing to be kind. Calls you or talks to you or makes the effort to recognize you're there.

Goes through extreme circumstances to make sure you're okay, and puts up with your bullshit when you don't mean it, tells you when you've made a mistake so you can correct it.

A girl with a smile on her face.

**lahnnabell** · 31-03-10, 04:41 PM

Puts up with bullshit? A man doesn't put out bullshit as far as I'm concerned, and I'm done with those little boys. I know what I want, and everyone else can f*ck off.

**the_robot** · 31-03-10, 05:16 PM

Originally Posted by lahnnabell

Puts up with bullshit? A man doesn't put out bullshit as far as I'm concerned, and I'm done with those little boys. I know what I want, and everyone else can f*ck off.

What does "putting up with bullshit" mean? What little boys? I'm confused...

EDIT: Ok, I found the meaning of put up. Still don't know what little boys you are talking about :-/

**lahnnabell** · 31-03-10, 05:19 PM

Men, actual men, don't put out BS. Little boys do. I don't date little boys anymore, and I've learned to distinguish them from the men.

**kai** · 31-03-10, 05:56 PM

A perfect lady = Kind hearted + Down to Earth + Dresses like a lady + Awesome in bed + Respects everyone + Can cook + Can Dance + Intelligent + Confident

**the_robot** · 31-03-10, 08:42 PM

Originally Posted by lahnnabell

Men, actual men, don't put out BS. Little boys do. I don't date little boys anymore, and I've learned to distinguish them from the men.

You mean like saying things they don't actually think just to hurt or..?

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