Unsatisfied in bed by my man- would like a mans point of view

[Sonrisa]

that's right!

well, in any case, fluffybunny, I am sorry if that has offended you.

I must've been in a really good mood to come up with that crap, lol.

[SirWagginston]

I don't think not caring about the sexual satisfaction of your partner is necessarily part of being a man. I'm a man, and I feel guilty after sex the girl didn't orgasm. I usually **** her again and/or eat her out at that point.

[fluffybunny]

I haven't seen anything here that I find infraction-worthy. Get used to it, Fluffy. This isn't so bad. Generally, the tone of this thread is supportive of you. Just think of Sonrisa as someone suffering from Tourette's.

I take it your all just "clicky" well u lot stick together i will find a more adult and supportive forum!!
whats the point in having rules then, or is that to make it look good?

once again thanks to those who werent as silly as these people are on here x

[Sonrisa]

come on bunny, i already apologized! relax already!

[misombra]

oh geez get a sense of humor. a lot of us gave you good advice.

[Sonrisa]

I feel bad for scaring newbies away. usually someone else does it for me. like Neo, but he wasn't available today.

[Aeradalia]

Sonrisa... you're coming on too strong... you must go easy on the newbs...

Anyway... congrats on moving on from what probably would've turned into a completely loveless relationship. He sounded like he had some hang ups -- things he'll have to work out for himself.

I'm sure plenty of others will modify this, but there are a few areas you have to make sure you are satisfied in. A person has to satisfy you emotionally, intellectually, and sexually, or you'll find yourself miserable in the relationship. Hopefully your next choice will be better.

[Krissykris]

You know, I felt the EXACT same way and still do sometimes. My bf wasn't good in bed when we first met, we got in ALOT of fights within the first 2 years over lack of good sex. I don't think we have amazing sexual chemistry but sometimes sex is wonderful. I've told him he sucked, after numerously telling him and hinting to him that I don't like certain things. He took it badly when I said it and I felt bad but in the long run it worked out, he's really good now and I mean he can go forever and get up and go again. I never cum though unless I use my vibrator first during foreplay, it gets me ready for him and makes sex alot more enjoyable, although sometimes I just want my brains f%$#ed out at that second.

I completely understand how you feel, unloved, un wanted ect. I feel like that sometimes, and I don't think it has alot to do with the guy it's us too. We have to feel beautiful and sexy, which maybe he needs to tell you more that you are.