We need a new method! Any ideas?

[.X.KBabey.X.]

Hi

My girlfriend and i have been together for just over 5 months, and she has never been a fan of sex, especially not giving it. I could never understand why but then she told me it is because her hand cramps up and leaves her arm especially wrist in pain for a number of days. She also becomes uncomfortable because of the way she lies. It hurts her hips.

We NEED a new method of sex. I miss her. I dont want a rampant rabbit shoved up me all the same because it wont be her. We don't really wanna go down the route of a strap-on if possible.Using her tongue doesn't do anything for me. But she was amazing with her hands. But I have no idea what to do anymore. I can't go without it, she could but i cant. Like i said i Miss her.

Any ideas??

Thanks

(same sex couple)

[qwertz]

if she cant use her hands, and you dont want to use a strap on or toy and her tongue does nothing for you..then what the hell else is there? I dont see how there can be another 'method' if you have already ruled out those.

Oh, and are you SURE her hand cramps up? 'hurts her hips'? hmmmmmm

[.X.KBabey.X.]

I mean is there another way of doing something with her hands. Its the position of her hand that cramps her wrists.

[Petit Papillon]

It's not a problem because of a bad position. Belive me, it's just a silly excuse. Seems like she doesn't want to have sex with you,maybe she's not attracted in you enough. What would you do about it?

[asdfg789]

Any ideas??

i hate to say this but God obviously didn't give her the right tools ...

[connie123]

I agree... Maybe you jsut rub her in the wrong way.

Explore possibilities together. Not alone because in a relationship and sex, it takes two to tango. It's not only your preference and your methods, hers as well.