Next step

[Varek]

Hi Guys

first post hope it's okay!

Firstly I'm a 21 year old gay guy from the uk.

I've been seeing a guy for a while (by just sleeping together - not sex) and I'm nervous about askiing him if he wants to take it to the next step and am unsure on how to say it.

At first I thought it was just going to be a one night thing both drunk and I had had a crush on him for weeks and he knew but had never actually seen me. Then one evening we were both out and I introduced my self ect and he said that he quite liked me and then that night was history, I didn't think I would hear from him again even tho he lives in the flats across the road!

Then he SMS me and called me and invited me round the night after just to sleep so I went and that's all that happend. The same happend a few night. The past week I've not been there for two nights and both times he has sent me a SMS saying "it's really weird/odd without you here" and I never know what to reply!

Somthing else is when I Leave to get back home In the morning he always gives me a hug and kisses me, and yesterday in the street he saw me and after we had a chat he did the same. So he's not embarased about being around me.....also he gave me a hicky on my neck and I gave him one on his sholder (don't ask why heat of the moment!) I had to cover it for work but he told peoe about his....

From that do you think there could be somthing more than just "friends" or am I reading too much into it?
I've never had someone the way he is before so I need advice! I should know what men are thinking being one!!!

Hope you don't think I'm some weirdo!!

[vashti]

In a heterosexual relationship, the normal evolution is that you kiss, then touch, and then have sex. I don't see why it would be any different for a homosexual relationship. The next time you are making out, just start letting your hands wander...

And BTW - please practice safe sex when you get to that point.