Love or an Ideal Sex Life

[erik]

The two aren't always mutually compatible for me

There are certain sexual fantasies I'd like to fulfill with someone I'm in a relationship with (i.e not a one night stand or fwb), but not someone who I would want to grow old with and have the type of relationship my parents and grandparents had

Does anyone else have this confliction?

[dewilliams2]

No...I want to experience that with the person I am gonna spend the rest of my life with....I don't follow your logic.

[erik]

so....do you want to experiment with things like threesomes, rape simulation, sex in a public place.....with the woman who you would want to mother your children

[dewilliams2]

I'd skip the threesome...I'm just not feelin it anyways...but the other stuff...yea why not?

The way I see it is as long as you are both into it and love each other then go for it. I love my gf very much and if it continues this way at some point in time I'll probably ask her to marry me and we have done those things and more...minus the threesome. Although even that is on the table, we have talked about it...more because she wants to than I want to.

[girl68]

Hell yeah I want my lover to do all sorts of nasty things with me. And I will be the mother of all his little rugrats.

And I agree with the 3some that's a nono but all those other nasty ones- hell yes.

[xxazurexx]

^^ I agree.

And why the heck would he want to all this shit with another woman, when he could do it all with me?

I suspect that NO other woman, could do it better than us anyway eh Girl68?

[girl68]

that's right! I'll rape the shit right out of him. I'll be his little school girl slut. I'll be the "dirty secretary" seducing her old horny boss. I will lap dance like no stripper ever could... my list could go on and on but I think y'all get the idea. Why pick another woman when I'm clean, all his and more than willing. It cause you can't bear to think of the mother of your children as not pure and innocent? Probably. But my guy will never have a backed up penis because I'll suck him dry- often and always.

[dewilliams2]

that's right! I'll rape the shit right out of him. I'll be his little school girl slut. I'll be the "dirty secretary" seducing her old horny boss. I will lap dance like no stripper ever could... my list could go on and on but I think y'all get the idea. Why pick another woman when I'm clean, all his and more than willing. It cause you can't bear to think of the mother of your children as not pure and innocent? Probably. But my guy will never have a backed up penis because I'll suck him dry- often and always.

I guess I don't see where it is impure and not innocent...I'd be the father of my children and my mind is a sick perverse place but that doesn't mean I'll make a bad father...its simply human sexuality.

@girl68...I'd just like to point out that I hate you now...my gf is outta town...what the hell am I supposed to do with this?...*looks at crotch*

[Wiredbomb0]

I think it would be weird to do all of those listed above (except a threesome; that really doesn't interest me) and not do it with someone who would want to marry or have an idea of marrying. It seems logical to do things like that with someone who you are genuinely in love with and see a future with, and not just someone else that you're there for some 'fun'.

[dewilliams2]

Yea cause just cause I get married doesn't mean I wanta stop doing nasty, disgusting, unspeakable things....those are the best kind.

[girl68]

DeWill, you don't hate me and you know it!

[dewilliams2]

DeWill, you don't hate me and you know it!

No I don't...ya just can't say that kinda stuff when I'm by myself...its not fair...I realize I could take care of it by myself but its not nearly as fun.

[xxazurexx]

that's right! I'll rape the shit right out of him. I'll be his little school girl slut. I'll be the "dirty secretary" seducing her old horny boss. I will lap dance like no stripper ever could... my list could go on and on but I think y'all get the idea. Why pick another woman when I'm clean, all his and more than willing. It cause you can't bear to think of the mother of your children as not pure and innocent? Probably. But my guy will never have a backed up penis because I'll suck him dry- often and always.

LOL ...Too right!!...

[Gigabitch]

Erik, this isn't a conflict because I don't think sex is dirty. You do, don't you?

[LailaK]

If you really loved your partner and felt really "safe" with them you would want to be your nasty, dirty self around them without judging them for letting you be your nasty dirty self.