A serious question for all of you girls out there

[DaneClark]

Hypothetical situation.

You have been close friends with a guy for your entire life. He almost feels like a brother to you. He is a bit on the nerdy side and is kind of emotionally immature.

The last time you saw this guy, you've noticed that a lot has changed about him. He has been working out and now has a rather buffed-up physique, he has gotten contacts and no longer wears glasses, he now dresses in more trendy clothes, and he has gotten a lot more mature. He almost seems like a completely different person now. He seems a lot less nerdy and more like the kind of guy you would like to date. Plus, you can already tell that he likes you back.

If this were to happen, would you suddenly develop feelings for this guy that weren't there before, or would it still feel to awkward?

[Sonrisa]

this is an impossible question. thus an answer is non-existent.

[girl68]

if he wasn't attractive and became attractive why would you NOT start to like him?

[xxazurexx]

No I wouldn't suddenly develop feelings for him and because he changed his appearance.

I've known guys before that changed their appearance and it didn't make me any the more interested in him.
It's not about looks, it goes deeper than looks and if you aren't feeling it for someone, a new haircut or weight loss won't change it.
Not for me anyway.

[Gigabitch]

Nope. He'd still be in the Friend Zone.

[bloodtippedrose]

I might develop feelings for him. If he had emotionally matured and was confident without being an ass.

If not he would at least graduate from the friend zone to the friends with benefits zone


actually i would probably still view him as a friend until another girl tried to get close to him -_-

[secondwind]

I would most probably still see him as a friend.

[Neogenesis]

Yes, I could fall for him.

[lanana.banana]

too late if the brotherly relationship has been formed. there is a high chance that she wont be able to get past that, and it would be the thing that keeps her a friend.