really sucks

[Junket]

You're killing me DW.

You should've majored in relationships instead of history.

[dewilliams2]

You're killing me DW.

You should've majored in relationships instead of history.

So your sayin no bj? Cause I'd really like one.

[lahnnabell]

So your sayin no bj? Cause I'd really like one.

This is a really good lesson on how to weigh your options. Are you gaining more by receiving said BJ? What if this chick wants to give you another? And another? What if she's throwing this offer out there to see if it'll lead somewhere with you? I've seen so many girls do this, and it always blows up in their faces. (Hahahaha! I didn't even try for that one!)

Are you losing out by not accepting the BJ? Yeah, you'd be losing some feel good time. But why not find a girl you're not so buddy-buddy with. It's only gonna complicate things.

[Gigabitch]

Friends don't blow friends. That's not what friendship is. Don't go for this, dewilliams. The last thing you need is more complications in your life. There will be plenty of blowjobs in your future.

[dewilliams2]

This is a really good lesson on how to weigh your options. Are you gaining more by receiving said BJ? What if this chick wants to give you another? And another? What if she's throwing this offer out there to see if it'll lead somewhere with you? I've seen so many girls do this, and it always blows up in their faces. (Hahahaha! I didn't even try for that one!)

Are you losing out by not accepting the BJ? Yeah, you'd be losing some feel good time. But why not find a girl you're not so buddy-buddy with. It's only gonna complicate things.

That did make me laugh pretty hard.

I know what you guys are saying and that is why I am hesitant. I don't think she has feelings for me. She has never said anything....honestly she doesn't give most guys half a chance....she shoots guys down hard. I've only seen 2 get through in the time I've known her....and that was since we road the school bus in elementary school.

I really do know what you are saying. I mean honestly I have sort of always been a little curious what it would be like with her...not just a bj but sex. But like I said she feels more like one of the guys to me.

I'll probably say no but it really would be quite enjoyable. This is like turning down money to me.

[Junket]

That did make me laugh pretty hard.

I know what you guys are saying and that is why I am hesitant. I don't think she has feelings for me. She has never said anything....honestly she doesn't give most guys half a chance....she shoots guys down hard. I've only seen 2 get through in the time I've known her....and that was since we road the school bus in elementary school.

I really do know what you are saying. I mean honestly I have sort of always been a little curious what it would be like with her...not just a bj but sex. But like I said she feels more like one of the guys to me.

I'll probably say no but it really would be quite enjoyable. This is like turning down money to me.

So you'll accept a bj from a friend you're not romantically interested...

But you won't flip your lid when you stumble on your g/f gettin' pegged by your buddy.

What the f uck.

[dewilliams2]

So you'll accept a bj from a friend you're not romantically interested...

But you won't flip your lid when you stumble on your g/f gettin' pegged by your buddy.

What the f uck.

I don't see the connection?

[lahnnabell]

This girl shoots down guys, and YET she casually extends an offer to blow you? Yeah, methinks she's been waiting for a chance like this. She's trying to play the "Friendly BJ" card. No pressure, no mess, just a BJ. Yeah. F*cking. Right.

[lahnnabell]

Dude. I cracked up at this.

Fras is saying your emotional priorities are out of whack. You outright REFUSE to get pissed at your ex for disgracing your relationship, yet here you are trying to rationalize getting a blow job from a "friend".

Derp?

[dewilliams2]

This girl shoots down guys, and YET she casually extends an offer to blow you? Yeah, methinks she's been waiting for a chance like this. She's trying to play the "Friendly BJ" card. No pressure, no mess, just a BJ. Yeah. F*cking. Right.

I hadn't even thought of that...your totally right.

****...well what if I say no and she gets her feelings hurt?

[dewilliams2]

Dude. I cracked up at this.

Fras is saying your emotional priorities are out of whack. You outright REFUSE to get pissed at your ex for disgracing your relationship, yet here you are trying to rationalize getting a blow job from a "friend".

Derp?

I got what he was trying to say...I still fail to see the connection. I guess if you both see a problem maybe my perceptions are misaligned....I don't know....I don't see a connection at all.

[Junket]

Dude. I cracked up at this.

Fras is saying your emotional priorities are out of whack. You outright REFUSE to get pissed at your ex for disgracing your relationship, yet here you are trying to rationalize getting a blow job from a "friend".

Derp?

'Zactly.

Man, this guy has me thrown for a loop.

Here, he's being overly logical, and then over there, he's being irrational.

I think this event did a bigger number on you than you give it credit for.

Unless you're just always like this.

[lahnnabell]

Well, then she wasn't really ever just a friend, was she? And if she's been hanging onto your friendship in the hopes of scoring some sack time with you, or a relationship, she picked the wrong time to initiate. Or she thought it was the right time. But mature women know that a man on the rebound is not the way to start a relationship, sexual or otherwise. Especially when you've been friends for so long.

So, she needs to accept that there was always the potential for you to turn her down. If she thought you'd take her up on it simply because you're a man and you're horny, then she doesn't know you very well.

[dewilliams2]

'Zactly.

Man, this guy has me thrown for a loop.

Here, he's being overly logical, and then over there, he's being irrational.

I think this event did a bigger number on you than you give it credit for.

Unless you're just always like this.

Oh I am with you now. Well I was tryin to approach it rationally. I mean if this truly was a no strings attached one time kinda thing then yea why not? But like you guys have me seein...I think she may actually be interested in me. So I'm gonna pass...I'm still rational....I just want a bj....maybe some hormones are clouding things but I think I am rational at least.

[Junket]

Oh I am with you now. Well I was tryin to approach it rationally. I mean if this truly was a no strings attached one time kinda thing then yea why not? But like you guys have me seein...I think she may actually be interested in me. So I'm gonna pass...I'm still rational....I just want a bj....maybe some hormones are clouding things but I think I am rational at least.

This f*ckin' guy.


Anyway, I concur with Bell.