okay, so as said before, i spoke to my bf about taking a break, and for the record we got over it
and everything has been okay until about last night...

while i was at work, i called him on my break, and everything was fine, and i decided to strip him to pieces about his social life, and to me his reasons were illogical, and in a way he was supporting both sides as to having a friendship or not...

anyway, he asked me if i still fell the same way about him since we spoke about the break... i actually had to
kind of think about it, but i said no, and its true, i just felt odd you know?
then he said he was telling his co-workers about our situation, and trying to get opinions and what not, and everyone he asked said that if we took a break, we would NEVER get back together, and i doubt that.

My thing is, why cant we just live our own lives for a while, before settling down?
it honestly has nothing to do with being with someone else, i just don't fee enough support from him when it comes to being with other people, having a good time, or our sex life..... im lacking! lol

anyway,everyone has been saying that we wont get back together, and im going to leave him...
i just think he needs to get out more or something, and not be with me all the time, and thats what im trying to get him to do... i wanna be with him, i really do and im trying to make this work, and do what i can before ending it. i want to work with him because i love him.

and so in conclusion, i just got off the phone with him, and he asked an ODD QUESTION:
him:"hey babe, do you think its bad that i see you as a friend?"
me: *quiet for a sec* "uhm...i dont know, I see you as my bf before my friend... why? is this why you asked if i felt the same way about you?"
him:yea.

....so now im confused. what the hell is going on with us? any suggestions?