girl is unclear about what she wants

[V3ltr0]

Hi all

I know a girl that I at first didn't hace feelings for. But we went on a walk every afternoon and we went to the theatre and I went to her plae and cooked for her and now I really have feelings for her. All of her friends say that she has feelings from me since the first time we met and I thought everything was going well between us, every time i left her I gave her a hugg and said I like her( yeaj it sounds kinda douchy but I don't really know a good translation for the word :p) and she always says she likes me too. So we were talking on msn lately and I said Do you wanna meet this fridaybecause we haven't had a chance to meet since sunday and she said yeah sure. So I said(partly joking) finally I can meet you and she saids: well your just addicted too me just admit it :p.So I said wel actually your right and( I wanted to be sarcastic) too bad that the feeling isn't mutual he . And then all of a sudden she saids really normal, not laughing at all: Well i just do'nt fall in love that easily. So now I'm kinda worried because she said that she needs time and that she really thinks I'm a great guy and so on but there aren't any feelings( according to her at least) I went to her house this sunday to cook for her and we cooked together and watched a movie together. Afterwards we hugged eachother and she looked me deep in my eyes and I really felt that she wanted to be kissed but I didn't dare because I'm quitte the coward :s. So I'm earing that she wanted it to happen then and that she's kinda testing me now. What do you think? Because I thought I could make my move by now and all of her friends thought we were allready dating so i thought that she really had feelings for me. So pls people, will you help me ?

thx

joe

[Kelsey777]

Definitely make a move. Most women, even thought we shouldn't rely on men to be the assertive ones. Go ahead and kiss her. Worst she'll do is say Im not ready , or I don't know what I want. Try it let us know how it goes.

[Alvy]

And don't hold us responsible if you come back with a red imprint of a hand across your face.

[Shark]

Your making it way to easy for her, girls like a challenge. Stop giving her attention for a while and she'll go crazy.

and NEVER say "too bad the feeling isn't mutual." That just exhibits your lack of confidence, which is NOT what you want. Girls like CONFIDENT men, not insecure little boys.

[V3ltr0]

So what you guys say is like don't tell her that I like being with her or al those things and just ignore her for a day or 2 and then make my move? because she said that she doesn't grow feelings easily because her ex bf broke her heart and I thought that maybe I should talk to her about it and help her get over it.So just ignoring for a day or 2 and then make my move? btw i meant the feeling isn't mutual part, sarcastic and teasingly

[xxazurexx]

I suggest you make a move, rather than ignore for 2 days.
How utterly PATHETIC is that??

If you like her...MAKE A MOVE, because that is what she is likely awaiting you doing.

You can still make your interest well known and take things slow from there and until she feels more comfortable.

[V3ltr0]

I suggest you make a move, rather than ignore for 2 days.
How utterly PATHETIC is that??

If you like her...MAKE A MOVE, because that is what she is likely awaiting you doing.

You can still make your interest well known and take things slow from there and until she feels more comfortable.

I also thought that the above was a little to pathetic but I don't really know what to do. Thanks for clearing my mind I think i'm just gonna do what you say

[xxazurexx]

I also thought that the above was a little to pathetic but I don't really know what to do. Thanks for clearing my mind I think i'm just gonna do what you say

When a female is sitting next to you and closely, looking into your eyes....you GRAB the opportunity there and then. She is wanting you to kiss her and awaiting of you kissing her. Tip for you and for future reference ...

If you are interested, let her know and don't mess with her head....she doesn't deserve that treatment.
Play it straight and from the beginning. Good Luck.