I'm having sex with an older married woman... adivce please?

[Gigabitch]

Tommy, you're getting all this shit from 40-ish moms. Just so you know.

[tommy.shann]

Ah, so you were looking for permission! LOL. Vash isn't done yet, I'll bet. Wait for it.

well, unlike a lot of the posters on here, i don't know it all...so i thought i could get some input from others that may have experience with similar situations... i thought that's what these forums were for? permission?? i already did it..obviously i didn't wait for permission.

[tommy.shann]

Tommy, you're getting all this shit from 40-ish moms. Just so you know.

LOL - oh! i guess i didn't think the advice of a 40 something mom would be..."you're gonna get sued for this" lol

[Gigabitch]

Well, actually, the person who brought up litigation is not a 40-ish mom, but I am, and I still say cheaters are scumbags. You're working overtime to justify this by throwing out unlikely scenarios, like the guy has a cuck fetish, but I saw where you wrote you couldn't look him in the eye.

You know what you're doing is wrong.

[tommy.shann]

Well, actually, the person who brought up litigation is not a 40-ish mom, but I am, and I still say cheaters are scumbags. You're working overtime to justify this by throwing out unlikely scenarios, like the guy has a cuck fetish, but I saw where you wrote you couldn't look him in the eye.

You know what you're doing is wrong.

Well, I know what I am doing isn't the norm...and that makes it a little uncomfortable... but she's so adorable, and the sex is unreal! But yeah, I think I will press her for a more details of her relationship.

[IndiReloaded]

What you seem to want is to be told its okay to carry on with this MILF. Vash didn't actually say it was okay, just that it should be kept from the children.

Except, sooner or later this kind of thing always comes out. I can think of any number of ways this woman is using you that you seem blind to. All I'm saying is that I think being a party to this woman hurting her children is a sad choice to make for some sex. Particularly given how easy it is to come by. I don't even need to know this woman to know she doesn't really give a rats ass about you. I hope you have that much figured.

Still, ppl sleep at night having done worse. Shrug.

[vashti]

Finally, some sense! You are right, I would hate to mess any kids up. I am certainly not going to tell a soul.

I hope she and her husband (assuming he finds out) would be equally discreet. Unfortunately, many men can't separate their emotions from their actions when they discover their wife has been carrying on with someone else, and he is likely to blow his load all over whomever is near, including his own kids. That would be very, very bad.

[Gigabitch]

My father hospitalized my mother when he caught her cheating. I was there. I was five. It was awful.

[IndiReloaded]

My father hospitalized my mother when he caught her cheating. I was there. I was five. It was awful.

God.

Well, I wonder if Tommy will ignore this or address it. This is sharing with purpose^.

[Kelsey777]

I can't believe you actually had your post thanked after saying this.

Really? I apologize if I offended you. I think its great for a woman of t hat age to still be attractive, but I think actually being,"hey Im a MILF" is the equivalent of saying ,"Hey I'm a middle aged slut" I think you might have taken that out of context Vashti. If you still disagree with me, I apologize, but that is just my opinion on the matter. I just believe that sure men might like to refer to women as MILFS but women who refer to themselves as that have issues.

[Kelsey777]

Oh and again may I mention, if you have a MILF fetish....can't you go for a single MILF? Theres plenty single moms out there, many that want casual sex too.

[Kelsey777]

She doesn't sound like a milf to me.

More like a sexually deprived and frustrated, dirty old married slapper.

That is too funny for words. I literally laughed when I read this hahahaha.

[Kelsey777]

xxazurexx is awesome listen to her.:-)

[xxazurexx]

That is too funny for words. I literally laughed when I read this hahahaha.

haha, I don't tend to mince my words

[xxazurexx]

My father hospitalized my mother when he caught her cheating. I was there. I was five. It was awful.

Same here. My mam and dad were both cheating on each other and when my dad found out, well there was hell to pay and lets just say that he beat her up right in front of us kids (I was 6) and half of her hair covered the living room carpet. Even at six years old, I knew pretty much what was going on and why they would always fight.
This is why I have zero tolerance for cheaters and abusers....as well as knowing it's 'morally' wrong also.