My girlfriend is (when we are alone) a very affectionate person. Loves to cuddle, kiss, etc, all the time. However when we are at school with all of my or her friends, she has trouble showing the same affection. All of her and my friends are asking why we aren't affectionate around them. i.e. we don't hold hands, kiss very often, and barely even touch each other. I am a very affectionate person who doesn't mind PDA at all, in fact, I encourage it. But for some reason I just can't get anything out of her. Its like when I'm with my friends and she's around, I'm not her boyfriend anymore. I hate that I can't be loving with her at school without her being a bit awkward. It just makes me feel so stupid. I've told her about this and she says that she feels like if she does anything like hold hands and stuff, she feels like she's ignoring her other friends.
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13-10-04, 07:08 AM #1
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Maybe she just feels awkward about doing it infront of other people, maybe she likes to keep it private, between the two of you...try talking to her again, start with just simple things and try to slowly build it up
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13-10-04, 08:06 AM #3
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yes, for example, try holding her hand in front of ur friends. if she doesn't want to, stop her on the stop and read that shit out loud (what you have on ur mind). it was the same w/ my g/f until... oh shit she signed on g2g
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Yeah but on the other hand if she is uncomfortable with it then dont attempt to force her to do anything she isnt happy with
"When I was 4 years old, they tried to test my IQ.
They showed me this picture of 3 oranges and a
pear. They asked me which one was different and
did not belong. They taught me different was
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13-10-04, 08:58 AM #5
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It sounds like I'm as uncomfortable with it as she is, just afraid of being made fun of I guess. Except, I'm a guy.
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Why? Who cares what anyone else thinks?
"When I was 4 years old, they tried to test my IQ.
They showed me this picture of 3 oranges and a
pear. They asked me which one was different and
did not belong. They taught me different was
wrong."
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Well it is the nature of humans, most intelligent mammals actually, to criticise others and feel hurt when criticized.
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Yes but people criticise others all the time and you cant allow yourself to get hurt every single time or you'll be a complete mess within no time at all
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They showed me this picture of 3 oranges and a
pear. They asked me which one was different and
did not belong. They taught me different was
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Yeah, i usually end up in the fetal position because i couldn't make up my mind. Originally Posted by KirstyM
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well I think the mystery is solved... she dumped me today.
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