How would you react if your gf told you she was a virgin?

[Incognito]

"Upright" men as you put it are in short supply these days. That classification is definitely on the endangered species list.

[doppelgaenger]

I hate it when people look at sex as some kind of dirty, impure thing. Carlos is putting pussy on a pedestal, as if the definition of human being means to defy your instinctual behavior. If a girl told me that she was saving her virginity for someone "special" I'd be pretty insulted, and I'd drop her like hot potato. It might sound conceited, but a girl that gets to sleep with me is a pretty lucky girl. I'm a very intimate guy and well, I enjoy women very much. My 'religion' tells me that sexual intimacy is the most important part of a relationship and to hold out on that for some self-righteous notion that virginity is some noble virtue is a logical fallacy through and through.

[Zaza]

doppelgaenger -- i agree with you in premise. sex isn't dirty, and shouldn't be viewed that way. it's a beautiful and enjoyable thing. but at the same time, i wouldn't feel bad if someone told me they we're waiting for the right guy. just as you have your views sex within a relationships, other people have differing views too. I don't think we should hold it against them (unless it brings harm towards us or others). as for staying a virgin, i don't think it makes anyone more righteous, but i respect those who choose to do it. it's not a bad thing, and people are raised differently. at the end of the day, it helps to be with someone who shares your beliefs.

[OldMenRock]

How would I react?

I would feel very protective of her after finding out she was a virgin and obviously scared/nervous. I would slow things down and make sure everything was right for both of us when the time came. I would hate myself if I found out AFTER that she was a virgin and I hadn't made it as wonderful as possible.

[Boisdevie]

If a guy has not made a move in 6 months then I'd be asking myself why? Is he dead from the waist down? Does the girl not turn him on? Are they 8 years old? Are they religious nuts?

[meshulam]

i think every guy have this dream to have a virgin gf, it's an ego booster to know she want you to be her 1st (and only one ?)
go for it, tell him, and tell us what happened ;-)

[Rminhammer]

you should tell him..I wouldnt mind if my gf was a virgin I would just have to take things slowly.