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    How should I initiate sex with my boyfriend?

    we've been together for a year and we've only had sex ONE time. in the begginning he was kind of akward about touching me and everything and when we had sex he didnt really know what he was doing, so i really suspect he was a virgin.. the fact that i'm not REALLY bothers him and i think maybe he feels intimidated? were 16 by the way.

    anywayssss. i want to have sex with him SOOOO bad and im really sick of waiting! ive expressed this to him before but he told me he "doesnt know when i want it". so how can i show my shy little virginal baby i want to get it onnnnnn?

    or it might be he thinks im gross because of the number of boys ive been with.. but weve had sex before and he didnt catch anything, so why the hell is he still wondering?!

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    Maybe because the last time he had sex with you, you got pregnant. That is traumatic for a young man who isn't ready to be a dad.
    I think you should give him time, and he will get it on with you when he's ready.

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    maybe I missed it but I didn't read anything about her getting pregnant.
    Show him the big guns that ought to get him wound up

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    better keep your guns holstered. You aren't ready for a sexual relationship. You are too irresponsible.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    "we've been together for a year"
    the question is: are you in love?
    is he Attracted to u?
    i think sexual relationship starts when love starts
    or maybe u should give him the time

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    Without having read your post (or any of them): "Drop your pants, turn your head, and cough."

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    Maybe you should do some self exploration and wait 2 years. Unless you're prepared and able to be a mother, you really shouldn't be worrying about getting in his pants.

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    Yeah, you're too young.

    You're not gonna believe it, and have sex anyway, but you'll look back and realize how immature you're being now.

    Regardless, if you want him to rub his cock against your inner walls, just drop your panties and bend over a table.

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