Anyone dated someone in the military before? What was your experience? I know I can't judge a guy based on his occupation but the high rate of divorce concerns me and the constant moving around, deployments. I've been seeing someone now for almost 8 months and things have been going well but I'm still paranoid. Having been cheated on in the past, I don't know what it will be like when he's off hanging out with his buddies, frequenting strip clubs and getting drunk in bars -- basically living the bachelor life.