Watching Porn While Having Sex With GF?

[snowking82]

Hi,

As with typical guys, I would say for the most part we enjoy watching porn more often than girls. I want to try bringing porn into the bedroom, and watch it while we have sex; it definitely turns me on and I think it would stimulate her as well.

However, for the ladies just a couple questions:

1. Do girls enjoy watching porn just as much as guys?
2. What would be the best way to approach and see if she is interested in watching porn during sex?
3. Would this offend her in any way; since she might think that she doesn't turn me on anymore when in reality she really does?

I always like trying different things to spice up the night, but I don't want her to think that I'm watching porn because she doesn't stimulate me anymore...because that is not the case she turns me on very easily.

4. I guess starting off, I would suggest watching some of the more classy/tasteful classic porn videos?

Thank you,

snowking82

[Charlie Boy II]

In my experience girls might like to watch it before sex, but will be offended if you actually watch it while you're having sex with them.

[Mish]

I think it will depend on her views on porn, it could go either way.

[vashti]

personally, I think you should hold off on doing stuff like this until the sex is actually getting boring. What will you have to look forward to if you do everything now?

[doppelgaenger]

^^ Sounds like the sex is already boring, LOL.

In my experience, women in general are pretty offended about pornography. Women come on here all the time, crying because they found their man was watching porn. They can often be insecure about their looks and if that's the case, it's a definite HELL NO. In fact, you should probably pretend like porn is disgusting and degrading of women if you're dating one of those. Otherwise, I'd be pretty casual about it - maybe load up a website like Youporn and say "Honey, come here! I got something cool to show you. Yeah, it's like YouTube, but better!" That website has thumbnails of the streaming videos, so you can have her pick one out. Midway through the vid, you can start making out with her and start ignoring the video. Leave the speakers on and move to the bed. This is assuming the bedroom has a computer in it. That seems like a pretty casual way of doing things.

Do you really need to have the porn, though? Have your gf put on a thong and a miniskirt and have her give you a strip tease or a bellydance to some hiphop music. A good dancer is a great lover, lemme tell ya.

[xxazurexx]

Do you really need to have the porn, though? Have your gf put on a thong and a miniskirt and have her give you a strip tease or a bellydance to some hiphop music. A good dancer is a great lover, lemme tell ya.

If she is so insecure about her looks she doesn't like him watching porn/wouldn't want the porn thing, she would also be way too insecure to prance around in a thong and striptease....LOL

How's about him putting on a thong and giving her a striptease? Why is it that we women are always made to feel we have to make the effort to keep the man happy?

[lahnnabell]

I watch porn when my boyfriend's not around to get me off. Not all the time, but frequently. And I'm all for bringing it into the bedroom. Hmm...

I also have a healthy dose of self-confidence. I agree that an insecure woman will probably have issues with it.

[Natlee]

Depends on her really, she could be offended about it or she could not be that bothered about it. To bring it up you will have to sensitive just incase she is offended. But if she is for it i agree that love will have to be included in the plot and don't watch in the bedroom but before so then she does not think you are not interested in her.

[Gigabitch]

Okay, first of all, pick some porn that doesn't threaten your relationship. Don't choose a threesome or anything involving something she's not into. You can save that porn for later. Find something naughty, but not nasty, like blindfolding or some position you haven't done yet.

Tell her you were watching porn and saw something that you can't WAIT to try with her. Tell her you've been wanking to the very thought of doing it with her ever since. Make sure she knows it's about doing it WITH HER. Then show it to her. If you present the idea as inspiration for new ideas rather than adding spice to something bland (really- don't use the phrase "spice it up" with her; it's potentially insulting), it will be easier for her to swallow.

So to speak.

[Fene]

When you said about watching porn while having sex I just can't help but think it'll offend your girlfriend by making her think you're pretending to be having sex with the porn actress instead of her.. Just my thoughts

[snowking82]

Thanks for all the replies everyone!

Gigabitch, I definitely like your idea...I think this would be the best route to take. Your right, "spice up" would be the wrong choice of words "inspiration for new ideas" would be a lot better.

snowking82