Is this an awkward way of asking?

[Pepparz]

Yeah I know I made a recent similar topic but I've made some decisions since then and just need some insight here (Some of this is a rehash of my previous topic)...

Ok I'll try and keep it short. I'm into this chick. We've seen each other like 3 times. Last week me and some friends + the girl and her friends went to the same club. It was the first time I talked to her (although we didn't talk much). We made out by the end of the night but things were cut real short as we all had to go quickly. I was a douche for not asking for her number then...

Anyways, I'll be able to see her again this week when we all hit the same club together again.

So I am going to ask for her number. I'm thinking I might just try and get her aside sometime the night and talk to her individually. Then chat for a bit and say something like "hey I gotta go find my other mates, give us your number and I'll talk to you later".

Do you guys think this is an alright approach (Remember I haven't talked to her that much)? I just don't want it to be an awkward situation or for her to feel awkward. I don't see what else I can do cause for most of the night she is going to be with a tonne of her friends and I'm not asking for her number in front of everyone else. Plus, I could try and get intimate with her again but I don't think thats the right approach since I might come off as someone who only wants sex..

Opinions please...thanks .

[vashti]

You had your tongue down her throat. I can't imagine there is a BAD way of asking for her phone number at this point... she was probably disappointed you didn't ask her before now.

[lovesjoyajm]

Actually, I think your way isn't the best. I don't like the offhand approach - it makes it seem like you might just store her number in case you need another make-out session. Sure, pull her aside and say something sincere.

[Pepparz]

Actually, I think your way isn't the best. I don't like the offhand approach - it makes it seem like you might just store her number in case you need another make-out session. Sure, pull her aside and say something sincere.

Sorry what do you mean by offhand approach? I really don't know what else I could say... "hey give us your number and maybe we can do something sometime?"

[vashti]

how about "i'd really like to take you out. Are you interested?" If she says yes, then get her number.

[TheTooya]

Exactly what Vashti said!

Best approach is to ask her out for lunch/dinner. That way, you have a reason to ask for her number (besides the obv)