How would I go about finding new people in real life?

[Ivanhowzer]

I won't go into much detail about me, but I am horrific at trying to talk to people or thinking of something to say to try and create conversation.

Could anyone give me advice on how I would go about approaching a girl or maybe even a group of people and starting a conversation so that I seem socially interesting and not some awkward lonely jerk? (:

[QueenofCorona]

Stop thinking you are horrible at being social. Thats what will hold you down.

I think the best way to go about the issue is to think of some activities that you are interested in/have knowledge on and go that route. Say you like a certain sport, maybe join an intramural co-ed team. I think if you are there and have reason to talk to someone it would be easier than just say going up to any random stranger out in public. Doesn't need to be a sport either, could be art, church, any sort of class or volunteer for an event or organization of some sort. I'm shy too and have always had better luck approaching people if I have a purpose rather than just anyone.

[Ivanhowzer]

Ahh, I never thought about that, I just assumed that going up to strangers was the only way... I'm none too good at thinking of idea (:

Thank you though, I'll try it out ^^