When is the right time to have sex?

[Boy]

Hi,
Me and my girlfriend are together for a month and a half (we're both in our early twenties).
We haven't slept with each other, but we are both attracted to each other physically.

I was wondering when the right time to have sex is.

We're both living with our parents, so it's not like we got a place where we can often stay in and do our thing.
Therefore I'm not sure whether we're ready for sex yet.
I mean, say that we go on vacation and spend the weekend in a motel, what's next?
We can't go on vacation every week, so I don't see how we can maintain sex in our relationship.

I'd appreciate your comments on this situation.

[the_robot]

I don't know for sure, but I'd say the "right time" is when you both feel like doing it :-/

[Boy]

I believe that we're both feeling sexually ready for it.

What I meant was that I don't see how we can have sex every week as we're both living with our families and don't have a place of our own.

[the_robot]

I believe that we're both feeling sexually ready for it.

What I meant was that I don't see how we can have sex every week as we're both living with our families and don't have a place of our own.

If you want sex every week, I guess you'll have to move out of your parents' or convince them to let you bring your girl home(?)

[doppelgaenger]

The best time for sex is Friday night around 11pm.

[Boisdevie]

When you're both feeling horny - that's the best time for sex.

[Boy]

Why can't you be serious friends?

I probably wouldn't leave my parents' home until I graduate which would take me 2 years to do that.

[the_robot]

Why can't you be serious friends?

I probably wouldn't leave my parents' home until I graduate which would take me 2 years to do that.

I was being serious, you I don't think you have much options other than what I said if you want sex every week...

[Fene]

Why can't you just have sex in your bedroom or hers? Both of your parents too controlling to allow you out their sight? I'm 21 and my parents are understanding enough to realise that I know the consequences of sex / unprotected sex etc.. Ofcourse I wouldn't be allowed to bring random women home constantly but if it was my girlfriend I couldn't see any problem with that.

[Honest Adam]

A month seems long enough, it might be time to introduce her to the parents/roommates.
Good luck,
Adam

[SapphireBerry]

Get a hotel for a night, burn some incense and light some candles
RAWR it will definitely get heated ...
And wait for it to be both of you alone
Alot of peole can be sneaky around these situations
I know I am myself haha

[Boy]

Hey,
Thanks for the ideas guys.

I considered the option of sleeping with your girlfriend at home, but is it really comfortable doing it when there are other people in the house?

Like, how can you even take a shower after you're done when you're not alone in the house?

Not mentioning having to be quiet during the whole thing.

(Sorry, I'm new to this world as you can see).

[Alyazy]

bring her your home of if it is okay with her to bring you her home

[austin07]

I think one and half month is not enough time to know each other. Don't get so crazy for sex. When you and your boyfriend will get emotionally attached too much then it will happen without any reason and place. So try to control yourself.

[Toxic106]

Well, for me, I go to hers when her parents aren't home. Which happens quite often. Especially weekends. If they ARE home, we usually go out to the 'field' close by. REALLY close by. There's this 'spot' we have. quite discrete. Not a lot of people notice. And it really seems like the perfect place for it... Like, it has the logs, the trees, the soft enough ground for everything really. XD I can't think of anything else because that's how inexperienced I am.