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    How to tell if your just a game to a guy?

    I just can't figure this out!

    How can you tell if the guy is flirting with you for fun, he's purposely trying to mess with your mind or is genuine?

    Thanks in advance,

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    Has he had sex with you?

    If yes, then he's just playing with your head.

    If no, then he's genuine.

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    We guys just like to have a bit of fun, why do you women look into it too far? We flirt for 5 minutes and suddenly it's a huge deal and you are all worried about our intentions.

    Go with it, have fun, if he wants more he will tell you.

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    If he starts asking you about what you will be doing in your spare time off, then he is Gen!
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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    Quote Originally Posted by hurt_confuzd View Post
    Has he had sex with you?

    If yes, then he's just playing with your head.

    If no, then he's genuine.
    LMAO. Yeah right.

    If "no", he could just playing with her to GET sex.

    But I'm sure you know that, which has me thinking your post is sarcasm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by glitteredvixen View Post
    I just can't figure this out!

    How can you tell if the guy is flirting with you for fun, he's purposely trying to mess with your mind or is genuine?

    Thanks in advance,
    Why would a guy flirt just for the hell of it?

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    For the exact same reason girls do- it IS fun! and if you're any good at it at all it's also an ego boost.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    For the exact same reason girls do- it IS fun! and if you're any good at it at all it's also an ego boost.
    Um. I don't know of any guys who flirt without ulterior motives...

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    I just gave you ulterior motives- ego boost and it's fun. You can't seriously be suggesting every guy flirts only to get poonanny.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    I just gave you ulterior motives- ego boost and it's fun. You can't seriously be suggesting every guy flirts only to get poonanny.
    I'm just saying that I don't know of any guy who flirts just for fun an attention. Maybe it works differently in different places.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phys251 View Post
    I'm just saying that I don't know of any guy who flirts just for fun an attention. Maybe it works differently in different places.
    I know lots of guys who are just as insecure as the girls who flirt for an ego boost. I think a lot of people do it and don't even realize they're doing it. Just becomes a part of what they do.

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    Some guys are so charming they don't even realize they're actually flirting and giving someone the wrong idea. He might just think he's being friendly.
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    Ya, some handsome guys always do not realize that they are flirting or being friendly. Just be careful with it.

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