Sex Before Marriage?

[Kayla]

3 weeks means you are still a stranger to her. why the rush? just because she is christian doesn;t mean she doesn't want to have sex or will not before marriage. i find it funny that some really stupid people think that just because the girl is acting like a prude at the beginning of a relationship means that she will continue to be. have the coversation about sex since you're in such a hurry, find out from her directly, you can't assume anything.

very good point! Just because someone doesnt want to jump in bed, doesnt mean they are a prude. I like to wait several months because I refuse to allow a guy to use me just for sex. But I am not a prude and I love sex- so when I do decide its time to bring sex into a relationship, there is no holding back.. maybe your girl is the same??

Talk to her and come back here with an update.

[Love4Everyone21]

Thanks for all the advice. I talked with her last night. And, she said she's interested in having sex. She also said she's a virgin, which explains her shy nature. That's ok with me, probably better. She also thanked me for asking, so i guess it worked out.... Thx again.

[nerdy_guy]

And when you succeed in what you want and she becomes sex-crazed after that (looking for other tasty treats aside from you, thanks to your mentoring)? then what? dump her?

[Love4Everyone21]

And when you succeed in what you want and she becomes sex-crazed after that (looking for other tasty treats aside from you, thanks to your mentoring)? then what? dump her?

Good thing she's nothing like that....

Is there is a "No thanks" button?

[Kayla]

Thanks for all the advice. I talked with her last night. And, she said she's interested in having sex. She also said she's a virgin, which explains her shy nature. That's ok with me, probably better. She also thanked me for asking, so i guess it worked out.... Thx again.

all that worrying for nothing then! Just dont pressure her or rush her. She said she wanted to and since she is a virgin it may take her some time.

[Love4Everyone21]

Ya, I guess I just have to not f*** it up now. Im glad I asked though instead of just waiting to see. Not to mention, she seemed to feel more comfortable when were intimate that night. All for the best... Thx again.