Recently I have broken up with a co-worker. I am trying to forget her, recover and get back to my normal life, but the HUGE problem is that the girl is a close coworker and we have to do things together. The bigger problem is that I am her tutor and I have to talk to her for long hours every day. And the biggest problem is that her desk is directly in front of me and I have to see her 8 hours a day/5 days a week.
I can't quit my job, please tell me what to do.
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30-07-10, 11:37 PM #1
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Breakup with a girl who is always sitting in front of me
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30-07-10, 11:50 PM #2
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How can you be her co-worker and tutor? Do you mean you dated one of your students?
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30-07-10, 11:58 PM #3
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She's new in our company. I have to tutor her until she's ready to do her job (analysis of complex statistical data).
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31-07-10, 12:19 AM #4
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There is nothing you can do except deal with the consequence of making a bad decision(dating a coworker). Not much you can do now but suck it up- or quit your job.
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31-07-10, 12:38 AM #5
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Wow... thanks for the help.
Originally Posted by Kayla
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31-07-10, 12:43 AM #6
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Well I mean thats honest.. Not trying to be mean but you are kind of stuck. You have to see her, you can't quit your job. So you are just going to have to accept the fact that you have to deal with this until the weirdness goes away. You could talk to her about it or try to ignore her but I dont see how this would help.. Originally Posted by murmur
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31-07-10, 12:52 AM #7
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Didn't you consider the repercussions of dating a co-worker if it went wrong?
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31-07-10, 01:24 AM #8
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I'm sorry there's nothing you can do. You basically asked for this situation...
The only thing is quit, get her to quit or get a transfer.
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31-07-10, 11:01 PM #9
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How long did you date her and why did you break up? How is she acting?
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31-07-10, 11:03 PM #10
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Continue using her for sex until you fire her. Deal with the sexual harassment bridge when you need to cross it.
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