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    How Long Should Virgins Wait For Sex?

    My ex and I started dating on July 11th of last year. We were both 18, both virgins and we had sex for the first time around mid August. I think it was the 17th. And we loved each other the most of any of our past relationships.

    Is a month in this case too long or too short? Just right?

    What if we were not virgins? That's what I'll be looking at for my next relationship, not looking for one for a while yet tho.

    Any past experiences to share? How long did you wait with your first partner?

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    if both of u feel right....it doesn't matter...no need to wait.......
    though it would have been good to see if u two really love each other that much...

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    my most recent bf was a virgin when we met. we were 'seeing each other' for a month and officially going out for a month and a half before we slept together.
    They called us a dead generation,
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    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    I don't know, I think they had sex 3 weeks too early.

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    I waited a year and I thought it was too short. I had just turned 18.

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    Well, if you're religious, you're supposed to wait until marriage.

    I think 2-3 days suffices though - you should at least know the name of the person you're ****ing.

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    You should make certain that the person you are worth doesn't have any STDs. Health should be your prime certain. Although, if you use a condum, you will be okay. Just make sure a condum is being used. Better safe than sorry. I had sex on the third date and I used a condum.
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    What's a condum?

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    I keep thinking the OP's name is "WTF dildo"

    teeheee
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    Quote Originally Posted by QueenofCorona View Post
    I keep thinking the OP's name is "WTF dildo"

    teeheee
    you utter genius
    They called us a dead generation,
    They told us that we wouldn't survive
    They left us alone in the maelstrom
    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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