FEMDOM OF A MALE Does It Turn Women ON ?

[dewilliams2]

This reminds me of one of those stories you read in penthouse...like "I was doing laundry and two hot lesbians walked in"...except this one has a horrible twist ending...like a porn story that M. Night Shamilananananana(sp?) wrote.

Look man...its alright if you liked takin it up the butt...doesn't make you gay if thats your concern....I mean if you see a big hard dick and think "hmmmI think I'd like to suck on that for awhile"...well then your a pillow biter...once again though to each their own...nothing wrong with that.

Truly sounds like a dirty disgusting hell of a time to me...only problem I'm havin is they didn't stop when you told them to....I guarantee if you'd had your dick up their ass and didn't stop when they said to you would be in county right now.

You have already said your not giong to press charges...sounds to me like you are curious about the experience and want to understand why you enjoyed it...but if you did then who cares....get nailed in the ass by your lesbian friends as much as you like.

[ecojeanne]

have to see some patients? are you a doctor/nurse?

[Gigabitch]

I have no desire whatsoever to do any such thing. I actually had an ex who really wanted me to and I just couldn't get into it. It's just a huge turn-off for me.

Not that I don't like a little spank now and again, but mostly for the satisfying noise it makes. I wouldn't want it to hurt.

[ecojeanne]

but it's up the poo hole! how can that be a turn on for women?!...each to their own of course.

[the_robot]

but it's up the poo hole! how can that be a turn on for women?!...each to their own of course.

There's some excessively masculine women out there... those may be turned on by the prospect of ass raping a guy.

[Mish]

There are though "some" women out there who fantasize about "dominating" a guy (or anohter person). These women are probably of a more musculine variety (no wonder these women are lesbians). And the whole thing about "all women thinking this way" is a common gay perception. I mean, if you approach a gay guy, some of them will tell you how all men fantasize about other men and how this has been proven scientifically. But in the end, it's justl saying anything to further their cause, it's not necessarily true.

And there are people out there who get turned on by watching others suffer or in pain too, if there weren't then no one would get raped or sexually abused.

[ecojeanne]

^^^are you drunk?

[phys251]

I see two separate, unrelated issues here.

One is the kinky sex--the BDSM and anal play. Whether that is right for someone is completely up to the individual. If they like it, great; if not, then relax, don't do it.

The other is the non-consensual sexual activities. If you didn't want to be penetrated and they penetrated you anyway, that's rape. It's very rare for a woman to rape someone, but it has happened.

TXChris, there's nothing to be ashamed about your cumming twice. That's a normal reaction to intense sexual stimulation. Whether or not you liked it or wanted it is your call and your call alone. So is what you do about all of this and about the two women.

[Mish]

^^^are you drunk?

No, but you obviously are

[ecojeanne]

yeh obviously..

[TXChris]

First I want to thank everyone for the very supportive responses. That means a lot that total strangers care enough to share concern. As I said I am brand new to this Forum and do not know what is and is not appropriate. I provided a brief background to frame my initial question. That was " Do woman in general harbor some hidden interests or desires to sexually dominate males as suggested by my two lesbian friends?" I call them friends because that is what they are. I have known them for over 5 years and I am very fond of them. I am well aware of every person's right to say NO and have that respected and in this regard what they did was wrong. But I did not post the thread in order to present myself as a "rape victim".

A lot transpired that evening that I did not related in my initial posting. One said to the other "Behave yourself or I will have to spank your little bare bottom." I said "No keep misbehaving" and it was countered with " Watch it Buddy or I will spank you too!"
One thing lead to another. They said they had never spanked a guy and wanted to do this. The idea turned me on. I let them tie me down because I thought that would make the experience more erotic. In retrospect that wasn't real bright. I was securely tied down legs spread over the sofa. Without going into detail let me say their hands did a lot more than just spank. They made many repeated observations about my state of arousal. It eventually began to start hurting but I never said stop.

Somewhere along the line lubed fingers went in and they asked me if I had ever done a woman anally? I said I had. They asked if she wanted it and I said "No but I eventually convinced her." They did not roughly force the strap-on in. I told them I wanted to pass and they kept playing around and saying they were going to" convince me" and spoke of rape from a woman's perspective. At some point my male ego was my downfall. Once they were in I decided I was not going to be a wimp and beg and plead. Had I made a stronger and more vocal protest I sincerely believe they would have stopped. Complicating this was the fact that I was getting more and more aroused.

When I said in the post I felt embarrassed and emasculated that was true. I surprised myself that I had become sexually aroused and had an orgasm in a situation where I was not in control and was put in a very submissive role. The embarrassment part came from a realization of how this must have looked. Anyway they apologized. I said I got a very small idea of what at least date rape is like but my experience was no where near that. I am not a rape victim. I would not insult true rape victims by drawing a comparison to my experience. This is long winded but I wanted to set the record straight. Again thanks for the supportive resonses,

Chris

[TXChris]

Yes I am a medical and forensic psychologist

[misombra]

that explains so much! psychologists, well doctors in general, are some of the weirdest people i've ever met. i've had the pleasure of becoming good friends with several over the past few years. they are just very eccentric. i don't know if it's in the genes or if medical school does this to people.

anyway, i personally am not turned on or fantasize about such a thing. if i'm going to dominate a man into doing something it'll be something like cleaning the toilet or doing the dishes. something like that.

these women are just super freaky mixed with a lot of weird.

[TXChris]

You are right They are weird that's why I don't hang out with them !! LOL

[misombra]

...and then to top it all off you're a texan...