Still embarrassed but only two questions left to answer

[Gigabitch]

I thank anonymous forums for saving my husband's life.

[TXChris]

I thank anonymous forums for saving my husband's life.

How did the forum save his life, if it is OK to ask?

[TXChris]

Actually, you have just given me one decent argument for why anon forums might be useful. You sure can't spew to your customers, can you? I'm not sure spouses or partners are the right choice either and def NOT colleagues.

It does feel good to spew openly and freely. And you are quite correct my options are very limited if one wants to avoid risk. This has been an educational experience and a good one at that. In retrospect I realize I provided too much background and detail but as I said in forensics details matter. I am used to gathering a lot of data because when you provide expert testimony during cross examination you need to be able to support every conclusion you draw by citing the precise basis for the conclusion. So we tend to adopt a "better too much than too little mindset.

[Gigabitch]

How did the forum save his life, if it is OK to ask?

There were moments where I wanted to bury him alive in the backyard and plant thorns over him. Some people talked me down, fortunately. This place has really clued me in to the male thought process.