One of my best friends is dating this guy who is a complete loser I think. He has no job and does not do anything. Also he called her a nasty slut, a stupid whore, said that she should kill herself so that the world would be a better place and he spit on her. That really upset me when she told me that.
Why do some girls like these type of guys?
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13-08-10, 12:36 AM #1
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Why do some girls like losers?
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13-08-10, 01:01 AM #2
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I have no explanation for that. If someone treated me that way, he'd never see me again, and the spitting would earn him an asskicking, either from my brother or from some hired goons.
Maybe she's just broken. Mommy issues, probably.Spammer Spanker
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she may have deeply-rooted self esteem issues and thinks she can't do any better. he sounds like a tosser who needs his balls chopped off.
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13-08-10, 01:03 AM #4
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Some women have such low self-esteem that they would rather stay in a bad relationship than be single.
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13-08-10, 01:07 AM #5
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Usually it has something to do with low self-esteem or maybe she feels sorry for the guy. (The whole 'hurt puppy' situation) Sorry your friend is with a Douchebag. Hopefully she will one day realize her worth and exit her toxic relationship.
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13-08-10, 01:10 AM #6
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Women like nice guys, but they aren't attracted to them. Nice guys often don't show the confidence or strength that women are attracted to.
She is attracted to this guys false confidence. It makes her feel protected. She is unconfident in herself so she needs someone like that by her side.Last edited by Raze; 13-08-10 at 01:16 AM.
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Think everyone is right about the self esteem issues. She was dating this one guy, and she always said that she was not good enough for him. She has only been in this current relationship for about two months, but if it is already like this I would think that it would only get worse. He did most of this just because she went to the pool with some friends. I definitely wanted to kick his ass for spitting on her and if I ever see him again I will.
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13-08-10, 05:37 AM #8
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I've seen it time and time again. Kindhearted, caring guy meets girl, offers her his heart on a silver platter, swearing solemnly to respect and adore hers and never to break it. Ignored in favor of some alcoholic who calls her, among other things, a stupid slut (and then she immediately has sex with him despite this), leeches off her for money, ****s around behind her back and then wanders off when he's bored.
Meanwhile Mr. Nice Guy grows bitter and the next time he encounters a girl he likes he more or less shits on her and in exchange gets his brains ****ed out.God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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Better off being neutral. =P
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13-08-10, 05:41 AM #10
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Better off being an asshole with a well used dick.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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Just have some confidence. Keep your individuality. You don't have to agree with everything a woman does to win her over. Stick to your guns. If things don't go well, don't hate yourself. Just say to yourself, her loss not mine. You are still your own person. I think that's what women want.
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I agree with this. You are getting so much pussy and that must be cause you're such an asshole. Originally Posted by Gribble
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Yes, i'll have to agree with Raze on this one. In addition to this, attraction isn't a choice. So, no matter how "nice" a guy is towards a woman, he literally cannot make her attracted to him. More than likely if not a guarantee, a nice guy will be put in the friend zone. Originally Posted by Raze
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Because by the time some men show their true colours, the girl is already hooked. Originally Posted by owenmeany
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17-08-10, 07:28 PM #15
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I agree with xxazurexx
I'm a real dumbass that way and I'll admit it.
I cahse assholes rather than the one who actually
cares for me. Very sad..
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