Wifes friend sleeping over

**qwerty78** · 23-08-10, 11:48 AM

ok, i know what i think... and i already voiced my opinion (strongly) to her. i am working in Afghanistan for a year. sucks on the relationship!!!! my wife has a guy friend, and i believe he is just a friend, but there is one thing i do not agree with. she told me she feels safe when he sleeps over, on the couch in the living room. again, i believe her, but i do not think this is healthy. i voiced my opinion to her and went off on him. i still think guys always have a different idea than women do. advice? am i wrong? i think if the roles were reversed she would be completely jealous and tell me to just stay at the friends house. how can i tell her how i feel without looking like a jerk ready to beat this guys face in? any advice would be great.

**anonymous12345** · 24-08-10, 06:29 AM

Hell yea that's a concern. If i was her friend sleeping on the couch i would only have one thing in mind, sex!!! How your wife can expose herself to the risk of a "moment of weakness" is beyond me. I know what can happen, you know what can happen, your wife should know it too. You need to get your butt back asap.

**shammi** · 24-08-10, 06:38 AM

not a good idea at all

**doppelgaenger** · 24-08-10, 07:42 AM

Yeah it's just completely inappropriate that she has a guy sleeping over. Again, this is the common opinion we shared with you earlier. Don't double post, man.