I messed i think

[Mismatana]

Heres theproblem

i broke up with my boyfriend 2 months back i should be over him right? NOPE
we had a shitty break up cuz well i got preggers and had to deal with an abortion by myself.
He promised we would be friends but it just wasnt working and it was making me so upset so i told him to go away for good. And it worked really well not talking to him, but i missed him and i realized id rather have him as a friend than not at all.
So we begin talking i found out he got a gf within 2 weeks after my break up with him, that hurt but i didnt say anything. He told me he had sex with her already, it hurt but i didnt say anything. He said he wants to be able to tell me things and vise versa. So i was telling him about my summer and my friend chase(its just easier telling u his name then calling him other guy ), im not serious with chase though we do share feelings for eachother. But chase has serious feelings for me and he messaged my ex via facebook telling him to disapear from my life. My ex told me and i was angry at that moment at chase and was embarassed. I told my ex i didnt wanna talk to either of them. So the next day i wanted to clear the air but my ex was being such an asshole.
He doesnt want to friends with me anymore here are his reasons
- i have a new best friend why do i need him
- he is jealous im so close with chase it makes him feel uncomfortable hearing about my time with him
- he thinks im not grown up but i think grown ups get angry too

he saaid he wants space fine, but im just scared he isnt gonna come back

and i dont want that
i want my ex in my life
i know i have to give it time but i dont know wt to do

help?

[girl68]

leave him alone- for good.

[VincenzoG91]

Your ex doesn't sound like friendship material, seems like more of an unlikeable jerk. Cut him out of your life.

Unfortunately, Chase isn't really your friend either, he's the guy who wants to be your new boyfriend. Unless you're attracted to him, you're going to need to ditch him, too, or it will cause problems when you start dating again.

[RdHrshyKss]

agreed. neither of these men sound worthy of your friendship.