Yeah, it doesn't hurt to be a little chivalrous from time to time. I really don't think it takes much effort to win a girl's affection, though. Simply taking 30 minutes to get ready before going out also helps. I mean, maybe I am doing something that I am not aware of, because girls are approaching me every now and then. Oh, one thing I like to do with a girl that is sitting near me at a cafe or something, if I've never seen her before, I like to take a piece of paper and write a cheesy love poem about her. Then I'll hand it to her and she gives me a weird look, but when she reads it she really starts laughing. It hasn't failed me yet.
Women do give it up too easily and I am turned off by this. In fact, if I get any hints that a girl that I just met at a bar or wherever is willing to sleep with me I lose interest pretty fast, thinking of how many guys she's fcuked in one week. Yuck.
I think you guys misinterpreted me when i said asking out.
We go on dates alot where is just the two of us eating or just talking or even watching a movie.
when i said ask out i meant make it official, shes my girlfriend im her boyfriend.
I think i figured out my own problem.
I just dont flirt much in general, but thats something ill work on because without flirting ill be stuck in the friend zone.