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    How long do you have before being friend zoned?

    I'm wondering what's all your opinions on that.

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    First impressions can be strong, but you probably have some additional time after that to avoid the Friend Zone. Depends on you, the woman, and the circumstances.
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    It's not about the time, it's about frequency of contact, and whether or not you allow it to drift into "friendly" tones. There are women I've known for years that I'm not in the friend zone with.

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    Side question, How do you know when you've been friend zoned?

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    Quote Originally Posted by WaiKru View Post
    It's not about the time, it's about frequency of contact, and whether or not you allow it to drift into "friendly" tones. There are women I've known for years that I'm not in the friend zone with.
    ooo saucy
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    Quote Originally Posted by EndlessRomantic View Post
    Side question, How do you know when you've been friend zoned?
    When she starts coming to you with questions about other guys; that's a strong sign you're almost there. For instance if she says things like "I met this great guy last week at a party! Do you think I should ask him out?"...you're in trouble.

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    I would say about 3 mintues.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    I would say about 3 mintues.
    That's how long it takes girl68 to evaluate the biometrics.
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    What happens after being friend zoned? Is there any way to go back to the dating zone again and If so then how?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roby84m View Post
    What happens after being friend zoned? Is there any way to go back to the dating zone again and If so then how?
    get your victim... i mean, 'secret fancy' super drunk.
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    I know and immediatley and if a guy will go in the friendzone....

    It doesn't take long and to figure if there is a physical attraction. He's either my type physically, or he aint....and I can determine that on first sighting.

    Sometimes, there has been a guy I'm not sure of.....whether I see him as more or as just a friend.

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