Confused by girlfriends sudden obsession with "Clubbing"

[Sonrisa]

Weird because you came into my thread quite some time ago and mocked the hell out of me when I was trying to better myself. Yeah, I'll never forget that. You were straight up aweful to me. Anyways another story for another time.

I mock many people everyday, there's no way for me to remember you all.

[girl68]

Yes, I know when you're a cow to people it's best to forget. All good.

[Lite]

Any thoughts, advice, jokes? Sorry about the length.

Some guy is going to get her drunk, and she's going to screw him, then dump you.

If she's out absorbing energy from other people, it means she's taking her focus and energy away from you. The relationship is going to end.

[Lite]

i don't even know your story.

Maybe she's just upset that crazy can spot crazy so easily.

[Sonrisa]

aren't we all a little crazy?

[VincenzoG91]

are you in a relationship?

Yeah, we've been together for seven years now.

[Sonrisa]

Yeah, we've been together for seven years now.

and does she get any freedom from you?

[VincenzoG91]

She's 21, so even she isn't entirely sure on what she wants, I'm betting.

This is a really good point. I don't think that she is deliberately trying to sabotage her relationship or cause her boyfriend pain. But because she isn't sure what she really wants, or at least not consciously aware of what she wants, her actions are going to lead her to this:

Some guy is going to get her drunk, and she's going to screw him, then dump you.

[Sonrisa]

This is a really good point. I don't think that she is deliberately trying to sabotage her relationship or cause her boyfriend pain. But because she isn't sure what she really wants, or at least not consciously aware of what she wants, her actions are going to lead her to this:

you really have no faith in women. i have gone out clubbing many times with my girls and NEVER brought anyone home with me.

[VincenzoG91]

and does she get any freedom from you?

Yeah, we're both very independent people. She has her own friends and interests and I have my own friends and interests. Some of her friends are guys, and some of my friends are women. But we're a couple, and we don't need attention from strangers because we get enough from each other. Neither one of us feels the need to constantly go out to meat market bars to meet new people. We're not stressing over soap opera drama because we treat each other with respect.

[VincenzoG91]

you really have no faith in women. i have gone out clubbing many times with my girls and NEVER brought anyone home with me.

And I've brought women home from clubs without even knowing last names. I was younger and single and having as much fun as possible.

[Sonrisa]

And I've brought women home from clubs without even knowing last names. I was younger and single and having as much fun as possible.

even when I was younger, I would never touch a stranger with a stick.

[VincenzoG91]

Some drunk women think that I'm handsome.

[Sonrisa]

Some drunk women think that I'm handsome.

handsome guys won't make smart girls into bed with them.

[Alvy]

What's the obsession with 'clubbing' anyway? There are so many other activities and places a couple could do or go to that are loads more fun than confining themselves into a crowded room. Different strokes for different folks I guess.