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    Is she ready?

    I was just wondering if anyone knew of any good techniques or something to tell when a girl is ready to be kissed. I always have trouble, deciding when to first kiss a girl. I've been going out with this girl about a week, and we've had a few sucessful dates. I'm thinking about kissing her. Ladies are there any particular hints, signs, etc, that you give out when you want to be kissed? Guys, what has been your cue in the past to make your move?

    Any help is greatly appreciated.

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    I wish I could read girls better...

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    everyone is always looking for some fool proof technique, i'm telling you there isn't one. i'm guessing you are probably pretty young so i know some rules don't apply to you. but you did say you have gone out on a few dates. obviously if she keeps going out with you she likes you. so when the time is right just kiss her.

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    The real reason I ask, is because in her last relationshp, I knew the guy and he moved what she said was "too fast". However he didn't kiss her until they'd been going out for 2 weeks! To me that is in no way shape or form too fast for me. I'm a kinda kiss on the first or second date kinda guy. But.....wow....

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    Yeah but maybe he just got serious too soon or wanted to take their physical relationship too far too soon. I dont think it'd be too soon to kiss her, but just sort of lean forward slowly and see how she responds - if she starts to lean forward too or whatever then yeah go for it, but if she looks panicky or backs away then dont.
    "When I was 4 years old, they tried to test my IQ.
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    wow optical i'm going to go out on a limb and guess you and this girl are probably pretty young

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    What I think is this...if you and her are out and she touches you or you touch her like her hand,face, arm, and she doesn't pull away or is she is doing this to you...In my opinion I feel this is a good sign and I would just go for it.

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    Kiss her cheek first and see how she reacts to that. That's innocent enough and in no way is it moving to fast. Good luck.

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