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    If she dumped you for this reason, what would you do

    Ok just a general Q here and I would like an honst answer please. Assume if you dated a girl/woman that you loved alot and say you both got on well etc etc, but because you had a slight bit of ejaculation probs (not all the time, but occasionally) and she got upset with it and decided to dump you for this reason, what would you do. Would you stand up for your rights etc, assume if you discussed it with her and she had the I could not care less attitude etc. So honestly speaking what would you do.

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    There isnt much you can do. If shes not trying to understand and work with you on this issue you'll just have to move on. Seems like the relationship may have meant more to you then it did to her.
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    Stand up for your rights? You have the right to remain silent. You have the right to move on. You don't have the right to force her to continue a relationship if she doesn't want it.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    sure that wasn't just a lame excuse to cover something else up?
    They called us a dead generation,
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitkitkitty View Post
    sure that wasn't just a lame excuse to cover something else up?
    You mean using that as an excuse to cover one of her faults up or something like that, is that what your telling me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Albinoni View Post
    You mean using that as an excuse to cover one of her faults up or something like that, is that what your telling me.
    yeah. idk her but it's just a thought that she could've just used it as a 'reason' when she actually had an alterior motive.
    They called us a dead generation,
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    They left us alone in the maelstrom
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    I don't know that I'd do anything if a woman dumped me over her insecurities and issues. I'd just move on.
    "Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."

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