Split between two guys.

[ailuj.]

Okay so I've met two guys recently. (Im a teen btw, almost 18)

One of them is a year younger, only moderately attractive and sort of immature in the sense that his parents still enforce a lot of rules on him. When I'm with him though I feel like I'm really in sync with him. I've noticed that we think a like and have the same kind of humor. He constantly compliments me and tell me he's never met a girl like me before.

The other is a couple years older and really flirty with me, he's pretty cute and seems a lot more outgoing and spontaneous. I feel like although I dont really have that much in common with him, but that I would be happier with him.

Both of them have asked me out and I have not made a decision for either.

Im really confused, I dont want to come off as a bitch here, who thinks shes all that; I've never had a boyfriend before!

I just dont want to make the wrong choice.

Any advice?

[shammi]

dump them both and have me instead, i am in canada too

[ailuj.]

very helpful. thanks :|

[DerekColors]

Well for starters you should follow your heart....Or go with the one who's more patient. In the end we don't have much to go on about the two..


The one is more flirty and outgoing. From that alone I cant really draw anything..But compared to the other guy this one will be more incline to use you sexually.

[kitkitkitty]

personally,i'd go for the older guy, mostly cos i couldn't stand someone who's still very much under the influence of their parents... it'd be like having a relationship with them instead! but you need to go for the person you feel most comfortable with. remember, the flirting and all that will die down after a while so you need to go for the personality as much as you can. if that makes sense.

[Charisma]

I'd go for the younger one that you have more in common with.

Having things in common really helps. Anyone can flirt though.

[Draugydob]

Yah, go for the younger one. Older guy sounds like a douche that would use you from the way you describe him. Probably tells you how sexy you are everyday along with the other 30 girls he talks to. Not trying to be rude, just telling you how it might me.

Maybe he's genuinly just a romantic guy though. Im pretty romantic/old fashioned and im 19 lol. But yah I'd still go for the younger one. He sounds more genuine to me; what kind of guy wants to date an older girl? A guy in love, I tell you. Or a guy in a lot of like.

[Mish]

You don't know enough about either one to make a decision at this stage, I think you should get to know both of them a bit more.

[DerekColors]

Yah, go for the younger one. Older guy sounds like a douche that would use you from the way you describe him. Probably tells you how sexy you are everyday along with the other 30 girls he talks to. Not trying to be rude, just telling you how it might me.

This is what I thought


Sounds to me like the Nice Guy VS A-hole.


Go for the younger. He'll treat you better. You guys have a lot on common.

From the little you said about the other guy it wont be a fulfilling relationship unless you just want sex.