I have a problem.
I cum too fast,
even when we just make out, with our clothes on, I cum.
I don't know what to do
We haven't slept with each other yet, and I'm very embarrassed to do so as she'll find out that I cum to fast and be disappointed.
I have a problem.
I cum too fast,
even when we just make out, with our clothes on, I cum.
I don't know what to do
We haven't slept with each other yet, and I'm very embarrassed to do so as she'll find out that I cum to fast and be disappointed.
Masturbate immediately before you plan to see her. Repeat if necessary.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I highly recommend a book by Ian Kerner called, "She Comes First". He suffered from premature ejaculation, and he talks about overcoming it.
If you make sure she has an orgasm before you have sex, it will take the pressure off of having to last a long time to please her, and she probably wont care as much that you came quickly. It will probably take you a while to last longer, it's not a big deal as long as you take care of the woman first.
Oh, the biology!! Sparkle your good.
I have always asked myself this question: "Why does the fun have to end after the man ejaculates?" Especially if your young! Tell you what, try this out...go ahead and paint the walls as soon as you like, then...keep kissing and touching and holding and moaning. Tell her thats how excited she makes you, that can't contain yourself, and its true! Then, like magic, after a bit of time spent showering her with kisses and exploring hands, the lil trooper starts to return from the dead...and now the real fun starts. Once you get a lil confidence in yourself the issue melts away.
There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
-Friedrich Nietzsche
In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play.
-Friedrich Nietzsche
I had a similar experience when I was going out with a really hot girl and were both still virgins. We were both very keen to do it and she could kiss so passionately (on the mouth!) that I would cum in my pants. And it was a lot of stuff, about a dozen squirts so it was very wet and sticky. But I couldn't help it, we were both over excited. Our church didn't allow sex and we were being good.
When I did finally get between her legs, and my glans felt her labia, I came too fast but it didn't matter. The only problem here is a result of not getting it often enough. And we fixed that!