An important question for the women here

[Albinoni]

Ok going to ask a simple but important question here, so pls answer honestly.

Assume you met a guy or had a bf who you loved very much, but he lived on his own, in his own place with his own independence, this means he did his own cooking, washing, ironing etc etc, would you see this as something nice or say something that would be a bonus for you.

Basically what I'm asking here is, does a woman/female like a man that has his own undependence, can this be a benefit in a relationship?

[kitkitkitty]

definitely a positive- i find men who earn their own money and have made their own life very admirable and can be very attractive in a way. as long as he's also prepared to ask for help when he needs it.

[Albinoni]

definitely a positive- i find men who earn their own money and have made their own life very admirable and can be very attractive in a way. as long as he's also prepared to ask for help when he needs it.

Ok and do you find this can be more of a positive for you than if he was to live wirh you?

[girl68]

That's a big plus.

I dated a guy who had a maid it was lame because he lived like a slob and called her when he left the house to go clean up. That lifestyle was fun to live in but honestly unattractive he couldn't simply pick up after himself.

[Enigmos]

Very attractive trait.

[to-cinderella]

I think its perfect for both to have own places to keep stuff and have "alone" time, as long both of you are ready to visit each other often enough.

I would be happy to have a b-friend, who sleeps at my place for and goes once a week to his place to do his laundry and get another couple of fresh cloth

[xxazurexx]

Ideal situation for me and because Im looking for nothing serious with a guy.

I'd love it if he had his own place, etc, etc....means he wouldn't be in my face 24/7

[breacliff]

i like it. great post. thanks for sharing