can i date her and it not be weird/bad?

[johnsmith1]

Hey
My best friend dated a girl for close to two years until he decided it was time to move on and that he didn't like her anymore. 6 months have passed and he has been through 5-6 flings and is currently in a relationship with another girl. Is his ex off limits? She likes me and continues to bring it up. I've talked with 2 of my friends about this and both are split. i haven't had a relationship in about a year and this may be an opp. for me. I'm a junior in high school.

What do you think?

[justcheckin]

how good friends are you? I mean its gonna piss him off for sure lol. Unless he flat out HATES the girl now, that would be the only exception.

[kitkitkitty]

rather than talking to mutual friends you do need to ask his opinion... it's his ex so you should respect his decision. which means that if he does indeed think it'd be really weird for him, despite you 2 liking each other you'll need to respect what he's said.

[thundersw]

she may want to make him jealous on a close friend.
but if you just want to take a bite on the pie i see no real harm in it. he left her anyway.

[Harry2010]

depends bud... few of my mates have had this situation...

sometimes the lads will go with the BROS B4 HOE$, meaning go for it as evry holes a goal ( no dis respect) thats just the saying

OR

Will be really angry and might even fall out with you as your looking to date his ex, and your having his seconds..

So this is a tricky situation...

[BackUpOrGetStng]

If he's over her, and found a new girl, there should be no problem.

[sparkle_jello]

Even if your friend says he's okay with it, he may not be. I've seen this kind of situation get messy before. Even if they no longer have feelings for their ex, there are definitely feelings about your friend dating them.