What shall i say to make her cold?--i tried bad words,didnt help

[nightmarexxx]

hey guys i broke up with a girl but i think she doesnt want to believe it and makes me really upset.In this 3 weeks period she sent me messages that she misses me so much,that she has still me in firstline in her phonebook :S anyway she says that: lets try to be at least some kind of friends'' so poor.But i dont want to do it,shall i say i have a new girl to make herself forget about me completely?i really dont like myself now.I hope i am not a bad guy

[thundersw]

it depends on what you mean by "bad guy"....insulting her does make you one.
please don't make a drama, lying about a new girl is a weak's escape. that's something women do.
just tell her you lost interest or whatever reason you may have.
she will come to it in time.

[nightmarexxx]

i try but its really annoying sometimes,m angry with myself actually,why why why,everything was good,i really lost interest.I dont feel even any jealousy.What if my all loves will vanish like that?

[Faithful`]

Seems like ur more confused then anything else. Maybe u just need to communicate with her. Tell her that there is no hope for u as a couple, that u don't have any feelings for her. But in order not to hurt her, u need to also explain that u don't think ur in a position in ur life which u could have feelings for anyone else either. Tell her u need time and space to grow as a person, to think about what u want but right now, it's not her.

Sometimes u need to b hard for people to get the point.

[xxazurexx]

Changing your phone number often works a treat....

Bet you never thought of that eh?

[breacliff]

thanks for sharing.
Not only does talking turn your girl on and release her inner passion for you, it tells her that you are really liking and enjoying what he is doing.